"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
Yes, I live in Sydney Australia and the ratio of men to women is around 10 to 1. It takes 5 hours of being online for every date. Then when you go on a date, the woman is rarely interested because she has 5 more dates booked in for the next 2 weeks
 

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I find that ratio hard to believe. Regardless, if it takes five hours online to find a date that turns out to be a dud, why not find your dates offline???
 

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That doesn't mean she's an attention *****, it could mean that she's a 7+ and that there are 1000000000000 AFC's sending her emails.

Send her a joke, make her laugh, make her laugh at her self. No one else is going to poke fun at her job, or hobbies, so I suggest doing that.
 

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I agree with user.....you should bust on her for being an Attention ***** and you should tell her that she probably lives off the attention from losers and that she only feels good when she plays with them and then laugh at her.

I thik if you can reframe her so that YOU know she is playing with all these guys she might freak and start to talk to you more , but what do I know the whole Internet game scene is booooooring.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
If the two of you live so close to one another, why not talk about some familiar places where the two of you could quickly meet up in order to get to know one another better. Of course this would mean that a decent level of comfort was established between the two of you. She probably wouldn't meet up with someone she thinks of as just another kbj. But that would also mean that you've qualified her enough to determine whether she truly interested or just a AW.
 

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
Stay off the internet when looking for women. Get out there in the real world. The mall, stores, clubs, beach, museums, events, wherever there are people. I"ve done the internet thingy and it's mostly desperate lonely women with low self-esteem you get. Oh and did I mention, drama queens?
 
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