Uro.Essence
Don Juan
lol, just pm me if you want that kinda stuff lol
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Shezz said:Ahh f**k it - i hardly ever use a condom - just make sure you visit your local clap clinic.
Sarge On...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A condom would've been smart, but I think simply the fact he had sex with her in the first place is proof positive of a serious lapse in judgement.penkitten said:unbelieveable. where are my tax dollars going?
i thought they were going to the clinic to pay for freebie condoms!
I would also worry about is AIDS and other std's.DJ Suave said:greetings ppl.
i got totally wasted the other night and ended up having sex with a really unattractive girl.. now here s my dilemma...
i used the withdrawal method and came over her stomach.. should i worry about her being pregnant. she is definately well over-weight, smokes and drinks (i no these all negatively effect a womans chances to conceive)
pls help put my mind at rest
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.