Uro.Essence
Don Juan
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i had sex (no condom) should i worry
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
I don't know how you guy do it...
Ugly chick - under normal circumstances, very hard to get excite.
Drinking alot - under normal circumstances, very hard to maintain erection.
This ought to equal a dud moment...
Maybe I forgot what it was like to be a youngen'
Ugly chick - under normal circumstances, very hard to get excite.
Drinking alot - under normal circumstances, very hard to maintain erection.
This ought to equal a dud moment...
Maybe I forgot what it was like to be a youngen'
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belividere
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To the best of my knowledge uro is right about the precum.
I can tell you that one trip to the d1ck doctor was enough to keep my from rawdoggin it with random girls anymore. The swab is definetly not something pleasant, even writing that just made me cringe.
I can tell you that one trip to the d1ck doctor was enough to keep my from rawdoggin it with random girls anymore. The swab is definetly not something pleasant, even writing that just made me cringe.
There's always chance of her getting pregnant even if you ejaculated out.
There's always probability that you'll release some sperm a lot before you have an orgasm.
Althought is so few you won't even notice.
Why didn't she take the next day prevention (or whatever, I'm not english so I don't know how's it calles).
If it didn't pass 48 hours you should still be in time. But I don't guarantee it.
Anyway, what kind of idiot are you?
A DJ that doesn't carry condoms with him and fVcks ugly women? You must be a sucess.
Anyway, I don't mean to upset you. Just realize that if you're lucky, you won't have luck again.
This site is supposed to build lifes, not destroy them.
Hope it helps (that next day prevention thing).
The other things are just supposed to make you feel bad and LEARN.
Don't make the same mistake twice. EVER! in ANY situation and whatever mistake.
That's a lesson for life I had to learn on my own. SO you're one step ahead of me now.
Good luck anyway.
There's always probability that you'll release some sperm a lot before you have an orgasm.
Althought is so few you won't even notice.
Why didn't she take the next day prevention (or whatever, I'm not english so I don't know how's it calles).
If it didn't pass 48 hours you should still be in time. But I don't guarantee it.
Anyway, what kind of idiot are you?
A DJ that doesn't carry condoms with him and fVcks ugly women? You must be a sucess.
Anyway, I don't mean to upset you. Just realize that if you're lucky, you won't have luck again.
This site is supposed to build lifes, not destroy them.
Hope it helps (that next day prevention thing).
The other things are just supposed to make you feel bad and LEARN.
Don't make the same mistake twice. EVER! in ANY situation and whatever mistake.
That's a lesson for life I had to learn on my own. SO you're one step ahead of me now.
Good luck anyway.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I was in your shoes one time dude i was 19 still a virgin i was at a party i was wasted and this chick who wasnt fat didnt smoke had a fat ass and was slim but looked like a rat, wanted me to go back to her house.
So here i am stumbbling drunk as hell going to her house we go in i lay on her bed 3 minutes later she has her tounge all in my ear and i say **** it climb on her take off her bra first time i got to touch real boobys lol.
Take my shirt off an her pants go to my wallet to get the 1 year old condom out which didnt even fit right too dam small go figure but i get it on anyway and she was like i have my tubes tied i cant get pregnant, so i think for a sec but remember im drunk so i take it off and slide it in and go to town.
No joke though i tore her ass up man i was a machine we ****ed so dam long at one point i was hittin it from the back she got tired and layed down an thought it was over hell no ***** i put it back in that ass an kepd gettin it sware to moses i rocked the bed 7inches back from the wall.
Anyway i didnt learn from my mistake 2nd and 3rd girl after that i used protection but the 4th one my long time g/f i hit it raw which she was better looking then my first but the sex sucked compared to the first chick just goes to show.
Anway my 5th after her was fine as hell and i didnt use a condom with her either which again i am a moron. But now i think ive leard my lesson i did get tested and dont have anything whoooo but 3 diffrent girls and several times of having unprotected sex i could of got one of them pregnant or caught sumthin so i say dont do it again!!!!!!
So here i am stumbbling drunk as hell going to her house we go in i lay on her bed 3 minutes later she has her tounge all in my ear and i say **** it climb on her take off her bra first time i got to touch real boobys lol.
Take my shirt off an her pants go to my wallet to get the 1 year old condom out which didnt even fit right too dam small go figure but i get it on anyway and she was like i have my tubes tied i cant get pregnant, so i think for a sec but remember im drunk so i take it off and slide it in and go to town.
No joke though i tore her ass up man i was a machine we ****ed so dam long at one point i was hittin it from the back she got tired and layed down an thought it was over hell no ***** i put it back in that ass an kepd gettin it sware to moses i rocked the bed 7inches back from the wall.
Anyway i didnt learn from my mistake 2nd and 3rd girl after that i used protection but the 4th one my long time g/f i hit it raw which she was better looking then my first but the sex sucked compared to the first chick just goes to show.
Anway my 5th after her was fine as hell and i didnt use a condom with her either which again i am a moron. But now i think ive leard my lesson i did get tested and dont have anything whoooo but 3 diffrent girls and several times of having unprotected sex i could of got one of them pregnant or caught sumthin so i say dont do it again!!!!!!
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
A condom would've been smart, but I think simply the fact he had sex with her in the first place is proof positive of a serious lapse in judgement.penkitten said:
Btw, pet peeve. Let's all stop calling pulling out 'the withdrawal technique'. That terminology was created by some swizzle**** retard who wanted to rationalize his premature ejaculation by pretending it was a legitimate birth control method.
I wouldn't be so worried about pregnancy (odds are against), but what I would be seriously worried about is VD. I've been away for a while because I joined the Marine Corps. In my MOS school all the different branches were there and about two months into my stay there, an air force chick was caught having a train run on her by 8-12 marines (I forget how many) Turns out she had gonherrea of the mouth and all those marines not only got paperwork, but a little going away present besides. I saw them at sick call the next day. Simply pathetic.
If she'll do it with you, she'll do it with someone else.
Get thee to a clinic.
-CyranoDeBergerac
I would also worry about is AIDS and other std's.DJ Suave said:
http://www.fhma.com/stds_and_condoms.htm
statistics on std
http://www.ashastd.org/learn/learn_statistics.cfm
http://www.angelfire.com/fl/LOWRIDERS/
Myth: Withdrawing the penis from the vagina prior to ejaculation ("cumming") is an effective contraceptive technique as long as the ejaculate does not come near the vagina (This technique is called coitus interuptus or 'withdrawal').
Fact: Withdrawal is a very ineffective method of birth control and most men secrete a fluid from their Cowper’s Gland (called 'pre ***'), which may contain thousands of active sperm, which can cause pregnancy. This fluid can also contain the HIV virus if the man is infected, thus with his 'pre ***' he can spread AIDS to his partner. Even if a male believes he does not have 'pre ***,' he may be wrong. He may secrete a tiny amount, but even this can cause a pregnancy or transmit AIDS.
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http://www.teensadvisor.com/teen-pregnancy/pregnancy-myths.html
4) I can't get pregnant if he pulls out.
This is not true either. Pulling out, also known as withdrawal, means that a man pulls his penis out of the vagina before he "comes" to keep sperm from joining egg. It is only 81 percent to 96 percent effective in preventing pregnancy. Pregnancy can happen even if the guy pulls out, if he doesn't ejaculate, or doesn't put his penis all the way in. Here's why: when a guy gets aroused, he produces a fluid called pre-ejaculate ("pre-***"), which can contain sperm - particularly if he's had sex or masturbated earlier in the last couple of days. When the fluid leaks from the penis before a guy comes, it can cause pregnancy.
Pulling out is not a very reliable method for young people because some guys lack the experience and self-control to pull out in time, or they say they will pull out, and then they get so excited and carried away that they don't. Also, some guys can't tell when they are going to ejaculate.
Myth: Withdrawing the penis from the vagina prior to ejaculation ("cumming") is an effective contraceptive technique as long as the ejaculate does not come near the vagina (This technique is called coitus interuptus or 'withdrawal').
Fact: Withdrawal is a very ineffective method of birth control and most men secrete a fluid from their Cowper’s Gland (called 'pre ***'), which may contain thousands of active sperm, which can cause pregnancy. This fluid can also contain the HIV virus if the man is infected, thus with his 'pre ***' he can spread AIDS to his partner. Even if a male believes he does not have 'pre ***,' he may be wrong. He may secrete a tiny amount, but even this can cause a pregnancy or transmit AIDS.
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http://www.teensadvisor.com/teen-pregnancy/pregnancy-myths.html
4) I can't get pregnant if he pulls out.
This is not true either. Pulling out, also known as withdrawal, means that a man pulls his penis out of the vagina before he "comes" to keep sperm from joining egg. It is only 81 percent to 96 percent effective in preventing pregnancy. Pregnancy can happen even if the guy pulls out, if he doesn't ejaculate, or doesn't put his penis all the way in. Here's why: when a guy gets aroused, he produces a fluid called pre-ejaculate ("pre-***"), which can contain sperm - particularly if he's had sex or masturbated earlier in the last couple of days. When the fluid leaks from the penis before a guy comes, it can cause pregnancy.
Pulling out is not a very reliable method for young people because some guys lack the experience and self-control to pull out in time, or they say they will pull out, and then they get so excited and carried away that they don't. Also, some guys can't tell when they are going to ejaculate.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
logicallefty
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I did this same thing one time, f***ed a chick I didn't know that well without a condom.. Went to her house to pick her up for a date, only our second date. I was totally not planning on getting any that night, we just planning on going out and maybe laying her a goodnight kiss, but that was it.. We ended up hanging at her place all night. We f***ed on and off for like 5 hours. When the one condom I had with me became no good, just said the hell with it and continued f***ing her without one..
This was over a year ago and so far I havent heard anything that she was pregnant and my d**k hasn't fallen off yet.. lol How long do most STDs take to show symptoms?
This was over a year ago and so far I havent heard anything that she was pregnant and my d**k hasn't fallen off yet.. lol How long do most STDs take to show symptoms?