"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I had a hair transplant 8-9 months ago and the results were terrible

bigdave17

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my hairline/front looks good but the middle and especially crown have not improved at all. As it stands now, when I blow dry and style my hair, most people say it looks good. When I wake up in morning, you can see that I've lost quite a bit.

What do I do now? Should I just shave the head and grow a beard? I grow very thick/dense facial hair and I look good with a shaved head but I have a big ass scar now that resembles something like this






Now I'm 30 years old and even though, I would look good with shaved head/beard, the scar and the fact that I will look about 36-38 is what's turning me off the shaved head route. Do most women around 25-30 really care so much about dating a guy with a shaved head?


I'll basically look like this - I have the thick, bushy eyebrows and dark/thick facial hair


 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you have the teardrop tattoo also?
 

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What's with all these clowns getting tear drop tattoos lately?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess I should pencil in an appointment for my own, so as to keep up with the modern trends.
 

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Teardrops from are for murder
 

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I'm guessing you didn't take finasteride like any good surgeon would tell you to do. Because what happens is the transplanted hairs will grow but your normal native hairs will continue to fall out, leaving you with poor distribution.

You've got 2 options - 2nd hair transplant or shave and fix the scar. Maybe micropigmentation would work.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guess I should pencil in an appointment for my own, so as to keep up with the modern trends.
The do it yourself version is more effective IMO.
 

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I've banned a few people here. What tattoo do I get for that?
A happy face?
Or better yet, in keeping with DJ principles, you could tattoo a permanent smirk on your face.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was thinking of a crashing gavel or a hammer.
 

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I'm guessing you didn't take finasteride like any good surgeon would tell you to do. Because what happens is the transplanted hairs will grow but your normal native hairs will continue to fall out, leaving you with poor distribution.

You've got 2 options - 2nd hair transplant or shave and fix the scar. Maybe micropigmentation would work.
I've been on finnasteride for a year and a half
 

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Next thing we will hear is how the drug has caused your little pee pee to not work..... It never ends with you.
 
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