"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I Had a Dream That I Died?

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Yeah, I was sitting in the doctor's office today and I had a short nap while waiting for them to call me. I had a dream that I remember vaguely the details, but the concept is crystal clear.

I was in my car - or a car - driving. The car was stationary, and somebody was in the passenger seat. I can't remember who. And then this car or truck comes at me and I'm just in a state of shock. I can't do anything, and the car hits my side of the vehicle, full force.

I felt something suddenly, and then everything just went white. This was all in the dream. And then I saw myself being crushed inside the car, like moments before it happened, as if I was also seeing it happen in slow motion outside of the car. I definitely saw my own face in the car.

It was freaking weird, and I sort of can't stop thinking about it. I've been under some stress lately, but I was wondering if this kind of dream has any meaning?

I've had dreams before of people chasing and trying to kill me. I'm sure everyone has had dreams like that. It usually has to do with being under stress and trying to meet some deadline. I've also had dreams of drowning or not being able to breathe, etc. But I've never ever had a dream where I died and saw myself while it happened. Just wondering, because I'm going on a 6hr drive next week, and I want to be safe.

Any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You are probably dead right now - how do you know? What happens if you never wake up from your dream? The Matrix!
 

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It's a sign not to make that 6 hr drive
 

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Back in my AFC days, I had a dream about crossing some european border, paying to guards, etc. At one check point they said more money needed. I didn't have, and they start shooting. It was very vivid. That was pretty close to taking on ss seriously and starting my recovery.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To be honest, don't even worry about the dreams of death. If anything, you shouldn't take dreams too seriously, they might tell you something, but chances are the contents of the dream aren't literal, but metaphorical or meaningless...
 

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i think you need to make better choices about things .

http://www.dreamdoctor.com/dictionary/cars.shtml
Common symbol of the self, the “the direction we are headed in our lives.” A more immediate symbol than planes and trains and ships (which indicate larger concerns and transitions) due to its ubiquity in everyday living. Dreams of brake failure and difficulty steering are common metaphors for feelings of being out of control, emotionally, in our lives.
Difficulty “seeing the road ahead” indicates uncertainty about the future. Being a passenger instead of a driver indicates someone else is “steering your life.” (Can you identify the influence?) New cars are associated with new jobs, new relationship status (marriage, pregnancy, new role as mother, father) and new projects. Flat tires and cars with mechanical problems reflect depression, and a need to revitalize the physical body.
 

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Also Relevant:

DEATH

Consistent symbol for change and separation in dreams, that should not be interpreted literally.

To dream of a car accident, symbolizes your emotional state. You may be harboring deep anxieties and fears. Are you "driving" yourself too hard? This dream may tell you to slow down before you hit disaster. You need to rethink or re-plan your course of actions and set yourself on a better path.

Accident dreams may also represent your straightforward fears of being an actual, physical accident. You may be simply nervous about getting behind the wheel. This dream may be a clear warning to cautious of approaching vehicles.
Of course, it's all crap anyway, but whatever.
 

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I had a dream that I ****ed a supermodel...hasn't happened yet.
 
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Most people who die end up going to hell and dont know it because they dont know that they have to receive Jesus in their heart and repent of their sins in order to make it or they dont know how to do it, and usually have incorrection notions that God is going to weight their good deeds vs bad deeds when that is nowhere in scripture. To be sure you are saved and will make it in heaven requires faith - seek out God while He may be found - maybe this is a wake-up call for you to get right with God.

This is an interesting site, but at the end of the day, if you dont get this part of your life handled, then you could fall through the cracks. So get right with God.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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