"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I had a dream about you"

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ever have a woman say this to you? As in "I had a sex dream about you" last night. Not sure why but within the last month I've had 2 woman say this to me. One of the ladies even dreamt of me back to back nights.

I assume this is pretty straight forward. These 2 wanna have sex with me. Let me put it this way - as they told me they dreamed about me they didn't seem repulsed so I guess it wasn't a bad thing.

Thing is...what is accomplished by telling me this? Why not keep it to themselves? 1 of them is married so not sure what she is trying to tell me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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its her unconscious telling her she wants either A. to fvck you, or b. to fvck.

most likely is a.

but then again, i've had weird sex dreams, but only about celebrities. the girls think youre hot, and want to have your babies. they think youre a suitable mate.
 
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Look at it this way...if she had a sex dream about you and DIDN'T like it, would she tell you about it?

Either way, it doesn't matter. If you wanna bang her, you should be working toward that either way.
 
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most people dream about things, or in this case people, that they are thinking about before they go to sleep. She ended up having a sexual dream about you, which is not really a surprise. However, the fact that she told you about the dream would imply that she wants to **** you and she wants to see your reaction to the dream. If you respond favorably, which i hope you did, then she knows you are interested.
 
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if theyre taken then maybe theyre teasing you.

We women like to tease you know :p ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Lola
if theyre taken then maybe theyre teasing you.

We women like to tease you know :p ;)
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Yeah, I had a girl who had a boyfriend a couple years back tell my friend that she had a wet dream about me, then when I got there, she proceeded to tell me same and that she was very satisfied in the dream. I was kinda dumb founded, thinking she was full of it and just teasing, so I really didn't say any comment or anything for that matter. Actually, I was kind of embarrassed. I did end up fooling around with her months later though, so I guess she wasn't kidding.
 
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i read about these things and its so ironic how some people who write books about interpreting dreams don't relate this sex dream into actual sexual wantings. strange.

the closest thing i got so far was about a kiss in a dream. wasn't really specific on what kind of kiss but im thinking french or close. it read:

nothing really sexual but rather a sign of acceptance...

huh????
 
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well, think of it this way. If you had a sexual dream with a girl that you really wouldnt want to have sexual relations with, would you tell the girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yeah i mean its pretty obvious whats going on here. By mentioning it to me I clearly see their intentions. I'm sure they were also trying to get a reaction out of me to measure my interest. Interesting how crafty women are. If you don't show your interest they try to squeeze it out of you one way or another

Also leads us on a tangent...ever have a sex dream about someone you find repulsive? Now obviously you don't mention it to anyone, but why do we have these dreams? Do we secretly have a crush on them?
 
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