"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I guess sometimes things work out in the long run

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Some of you may or may not remember this chick I work around at my job, The "Hot mom" as I call her. Only 21 and 3 kids. Well, she was kind of friendly with me, flirting and such, I knew she had kids but I had a thing for her, I mean, c'mon, she's hot. Well I took her flirting as her being in to me and I got the balls and asked for her number. I got it. Then crap went down hill, things got awkward at work and for a while there we did not talk to each other besides a whats up here and there. She did inform me she was seeing someone. After a bit I just stopped talking to her and every so often she would say hi or something and I would respond back. I did notice her looking at me every so often as well.

Well the last couple times she talked to me, I thought I would talk to her a bit more. Tonight she started to talk to me again, bringing up the point that I had a car, that I lived in the same place as before. She was wanting a ride. Well, okay, I did hit her up for a couple rides, but I still don't drive. I told her that, asking what happened to her car. She tells me. I tell her about the only ride I would be able to give her is a piggy back ride (I was a bit serious).

While I was talking to her, I was actualy looking at her face, something I did not do before. I also noted something else which brings me to the point of my post, Sometimes things may work out in the long run....

I bombed trying to get with this chick. I was constantly nervous around her. Never could get her to hang out with me. But perhaps that was a good thing good for a couple reasons. Why? Because a while later I actualy got my first date with another girl (and eventualy 2nd date) and the other reason...

This hot mom is now prego... again.. about 4 or 5 months prego which is about when I started to talk to her. I thought she might have been relationship material... how wrong I was
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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slitherjef said:
This hot mom is now prego... again.. about 4 or 5 months prego which is about when I started to talk to her. I thought she might have been relationship material... how wrong I was

Why on Earth would you consider a 21 year old woman with 3 kids "relationship material"? You trying to have a rent - a - family?
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Why on Earth would you consider a 21 year old woman with 3 kids "relationship material"? You trying to have a rent - a - family?
I know better now, thanks to this site :D
 
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