"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I guess I'm an AFC :(

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Well, I was at this convention and there was this hot booth babe. I was only trying to get a picture with her, but even then I was too nervous to ask. :(

She probably knew what I wanted but because I looked too nervous, she didn't like me and just walked off. I didn't follow her as I didn't want to annoy her or anything.

Looks like boot camp for me. :\
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get over it. Those booth-babes wouldn't be there if they weren't getting paid, so it doesn't really count as reality. I never treat them any different than if they were working at Target or something. They're not dressed up and glamourous for you, they are that way for the check, and 99% of the dudes hitting on them are morons, so they've really got their walls up.

Go out and say hi to a bunch of chicks/people, and you'll feel much better. Go talk to a real girl.
 
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Off to the side, whether you saw her or not, there was a hb7 or so who was glaring at the booth babe, thinking "that skinny b!tch think's she's all that." Go chat up that girl and you will get laid. You'd rather have that than some photo, right?
 
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PrinceBeavis said:
Get over it. Those booth-babes wouldn't be there if they weren't getting paid, so it doesn't really count as reality. I never treat them any different than if they were working at Target or something. They're not dressed up and glamourous for you, they are that way for the check, and 99% of the dudes hitting on them are morons, so they've really got their walls up.
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I know. Although I'm probably still an AFC, LOL.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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uphill is correct lol

but hey dude you seem to have a decent attitude

we're all works in progress

good luck ;)
 
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no wjh, his attitude is not decent.

If it was decent, he would have had the right vibe and mood, ask her for the pic and shed be happy to take it.

Last party i asked this cute older woman to take a pic with me, and even asked her how old she was, 49 i was like wow. Its no big deal, but the attidude is what needs fixing.
 
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