"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I guess I'm an AFC :(

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Well, I was at this convention and there was this hot booth babe. I was only trying to get a picture with her, but even then I was too nervous to ask. :(

She probably knew what I wanted but because I looked too nervous, she didn't like me and just walked off. I didn't follow her as I didn't want to annoy her or anything.

Looks like boot camp for me. :\
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get over it. Those booth-babes wouldn't be there if they weren't getting paid, so it doesn't really count as reality. I never treat them any different than if they were working at Target or something. They're not dressed up and glamourous for you, they are that way for the check, and 99% of the dudes hitting on them are morons, so they've really got their walls up.

Go out and say hi to a bunch of chicks/people, and you'll feel much better. Go talk to a real girl.
 
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Off to the side, whether you saw her or not, there was a hb7 or so who was glaring at the booth babe, thinking "that skinny b!tch think's she's all that." Go chat up that girl and you will get laid. You'd rather have that than some photo, right?
 
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PrinceBeavis said:
Get over it. Those booth-babes wouldn't be there if they weren't getting paid, so it doesn't really count as reality. I never treat them any different than if they were working at Target or something. They're not dressed up and glamourous for you, they are that way for the check, and 99% of the dudes hitting on them are morons, so they've really got their walls up.
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I know. Although I'm probably still an AFC, LOL.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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uphill is correct lol

but hey dude you seem to have a decent attitude

we're all works in progress

good luck ;)
 
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no wjh, his attitude is not decent.

If it was decent, he would have had the right vibe and mood, ask her for the pic and shed be happy to take it.

Last party i asked this cute older woman to take a pic with me, and even asked her how old she was, 49 i was like wow. Its no big deal, but the attidude is what needs fixing.
 
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