"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I guess I could use this to my advantage...

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Ok so before this year I rarely thought about dating or anything, but there is 1 thing i noticed about some girls. well there are a few that like to fool around with me - like play w/ my hair when I get it cut, rub my "tummy" as they refer to it, stroking my hand, and telling me they love me. So I'm not really interested in any of these girls. (1 of them is mad ugly) But I figured I could use this to my advantage. Any way how?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All of those are indicators of interest (IOI). If your not interested in any of em though, but still wanna use it to ur advantage, I would just practice your game on em, but obv dont do anything more like hookin up or w/e.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
All of those are indicators of interest (IOI). If your not interested in any of em though, but still wanna use it to ur advantage, I would just practice your game on em, but obv dont do anything more like hookin up or w/e.
The problem is that I haven't even had my first kiss yet so should I rly do it with someone i don't care about?
 

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Yea dude why not...you dont have to "care" about a girl to do sh*t with her...how else would you spin plates and hook up with multiple girls at a time? Just dont get mentally attached if all you want is the ass
 
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