"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I guess I could use this to my advantage...

Joshski

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Ok so before this year I rarely thought about dating or anything, but there is 1 thing i noticed about some girls. well there are a few that like to fool around with me - like play w/ my hair when I get it cut, rub my "tummy" as they refer to it, stroking my hand, and telling me they love me. So I'm not really interested in any of these girls. (1 of them is mad ugly) But I figured I could use this to my advantage. Any way how?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All of those are indicators of interest (IOI). If your not interested in any of em though, but still wanna use it to ur advantage, I would just practice your game on em, but obv dont do anything more like hookin up or w/e.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
All of those are indicators of interest (IOI). If your not interested in any of em though, but still wanna use it to ur advantage, I would just practice your game on em, but obv dont do anything more like hookin up or w/e.
The problem is that I haven't even had my first kiss yet so should I rly do it with someone i don't care about?
 

eaglez1177

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Yea dude why not...you dont have to "care" about a girl to do sh*t with her...how else would you spin plates and hook up with multiple girls at a time? Just dont get mentally attached if all you want is the ass
 
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