"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GunShow85

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Great lyrics to this song. Anyone ever caught feelings for someone that turned out to be sloot and hard time nexting?

Prob a beta question, but reality.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bump.

So no one ever caught feelings for their FBuddy sloot?
I have a friend who ended up marrying his college booty call. Prob not romantic, but he said she grew on him and usually stayed over the next day and he decided she was cool. They've been married 10 years.

Or maybe you found out she was sloot after been dating a few months? I imagine hard to turn off feelings.

Another song "Let Her Go" by Passenger. What is your track record with nexting girls when everything seems great but see you too many red flags?...and you let her go. I have a friend who immediately nexted every girl that owned a cat. He was ruthless about it. No matter how awesome/cool/hot once he asked the cat question, he never looked back. But let's be honest, if you land a HB9 that is cool it can be tempting to overlook red flags.

My best friend dated this HB9 who was nympho but she was annoying as hell. We all told him to dump her but he was addicted to sex. A year later, he finally got tired of it and dumped her. He would have saved himself some time/heart attack/nuisance if he just saw the warning signs and got rid of her, despite having such strong feelings. Well at least he eventually took her psy off the pedestal.
 
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