"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I gotta little prob

WaRpEd

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Ok, this may be an AFCish question, but i'm really tired, pizzed, and hungry........i don't care.

Ok, there's this chick that i met at a football game a week or two or three ago. I was about to get her # when one of my friends dragged me away to do something (that didn't go over to well with me).
Then at school this week I saw her again in the hall, so I said what the hel!, and I went to talk to her, about the time i was going to gaet her # or whatever, the bell rang....... :mad:
Friday, i saw her again, said what the hel! again, went to talk to her again. The only words I got out of my mouth this time was "Sarah...how's it goin" then then the bell rang again. After making the hundred yard dash to my class and barely making it on time i decided i was gonna talk to one of her friends whom was in that class with me.....she wasn't their that day. I am bound and determined on getting this girl. Any suggestions? I've tried making a situation to talk to her, but that ain't working out for me.
Is this god's way of saying "No b!tch!" or am i missing out on some minor detail.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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twizted_pro

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find her after school an get her # its not that hard an this time dont let nothing stop u
 

RaMar

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Originally posted by twizted_pro
find her after school an get her # its not that hard an this time dont let nothing stop u
at least there is no "bell" to stop you if you do it after school. :rolleyes:
 

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Don't let the bell stop you next time.

Tell the teacher that you really had to use the bathroom and that you're sorry and it'll never happen again. It'll be worth it...right?

You won't get in trouble if you come up with an excuse like that. When you gotta go....you gotta go. If you get in trouble for it then you can get the teacher in trouble.

Anyway, even if the bell rings ask her for her number and tell her that you gotta go and that's all there is to it.

Remember though, don't talk on the phone. Just use her number for setting up dates and such.

Good Luck :D
 

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well, i dunno what the bell system is like in America but im always like 5-10 minutes late for my class, you can always stroll in late. But get that number and dont let anybody stoip you.

Juggolo, thats a good idea for newbies


but some of my greatest relationships have involved a hell of a lot of phone time, i need the attention :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So you pick your moments wrong and after the second time it stopped looking like an accident that you picked the wrong time. More like an excuse.

Now.... try during LUNCH period.
 
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