"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I gotta little prob

WaRpEd

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Ok, this may be an AFCish question, but i'm really tired, pizzed, and hungry........i don't care.

Ok, there's this chick that i met at a football game a week or two or three ago. I was about to get her # when one of my friends dragged me away to do something (that didn't go over to well with me).
Then at school this week I saw her again in the hall, so I said what the hel!, and I went to talk to her, about the time i was going to gaet her # or whatever, the bell rang....... :mad:
Friday, i saw her again, said what the hel! again, went to talk to her again. The only words I got out of my mouth this time was "Sarah...how's it goin" then then the bell rang again. After making the hundred yard dash to my class and barely making it on time i decided i was gonna talk to one of her friends whom was in that class with me.....she wasn't their that day. I am bound and determined on getting this girl. Any suggestions? I've tried making a situation to talk to her, but that ain't working out for me.
Is this god's way of saying "No b!tch!" or am i missing out on some minor detail.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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twizted_pro

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find her after school an get her # its not that hard an this time dont let nothing stop u
 

RaMar

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Originally posted by twizted_pro
find her after school an get her # its not that hard an this time dont let nothing stop u
at least there is no "bell" to stop you if you do it after school. :rolleyes:
 

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Don't let the bell stop you next time.

Tell the teacher that you really had to use the bathroom and that you're sorry and it'll never happen again. It'll be worth it...right?

You won't get in trouble if you come up with an excuse like that. When you gotta go....you gotta go. If you get in trouble for it then you can get the teacher in trouble.

Anyway, even if the bell rings ask her for her number and tell her that you gotta go and that's all there is to it.

Remember though, don't talk on the phone. Just use her number for setting up dates and such.

Good Luck :D
 

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well, i dunno what the bell system is like in America but im always like 5-10 minutes late for my class, you can always stroll in late. But get that number and dont let anybody stoip you.

Juggolo, thats a good idea for newbies


but some of my greatest relationships have involved a hell of a lot of phone time, i need the attention :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LikRetsam

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So you pick your moments wrong and after the second time it stopped looking like an accident that you picked the wrong time. More like an excuse.

Now.... try during LUNCH period.
 
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