Got hooked up with this awsome girl through a friend. A week later she askes me to go to prom with her, I agreed. (prom was our second date) We get there everything is going great she all up on my s*, we leave the hole way to after prom she was all over me. we leave afterprom early because she has to work early. Drop her off at her friends so she can get her car. When we get there she is wantin it bad. So we do about everything but f* on the hood of my mustang. We leave and she says to call her the next day. I call the next day and cant get ahold of her so i leave a message. that was a week ago havent heard from her since. Her friend tells me she was seeing someone for about a week before we started talking but she really likes me alot. So why havent I heard from her.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Who knows what happened, girls are complicated man. There could be thousands of reasons why she's gone cold - but the golden rule is if your NOT getting what you want out of a girl - you walk.
Just **** her off, if she comes crawling back consider giving her a second chance.
Also, if you knew WHY shes gone cold, would it really help? All thats important is that she HAS.
Just **** her off, if she comes crawling back consider giving her a second chance.
Also, if you knew WHY shes gone cold, would it really help? All thats important is that she HAS.
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u got used man. Just let her go.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pap Smear..ugh might wanna consider it though 
There's no doubt about it. You got used. Just shrug it off. If this is your last prom then you don't have to worry about it again but for all you juniors out there, take a lot of time considering your prom date.
If you haven't heard from her yet, then your probably wont for a while. I'm sorry, that's just the way it seems. It happened to me at my Freshman prom. I took an 8th grader (I was nieve and she just wanted someone to take her) I had fun and all, but after I tried to get back into contact with her, she never really responded back to me. We didn't really hit it off or anything, but we did have a really good time and I was at least expecting to see her again, but I never did.
I'd just take this as a learning experience and remember for next time.
There's no doubt about it. You got used. Just shrug it off. If this is your last prom then you don't have to worry about it again but for all you juniors out there, take a lot of time considering your prom date.
If you haven't heard from her yet, then your probably wont for a while. I'm sorry, that's just the way it seems. It happened to me at my Freshman prom. I took an 8th grader (I was nieve and she just wanted someone to take her) I had fun and all, but after I tried to get back into contact with her, she never really responded back to me. We didn't really hit it off or anything, but we did have a really good time and I was at least expecting to see her again, but I never did.
I'd just take this as a learning experience and remember for next time.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i personally wouldn't have called her at all, and let her call me
if she doesn't, call her back a few days later and just say you've been busy
and remember the fourth commandment of the dj bible
"thou shalt not leave messages"
love deb
if she doesn't, call her back a few days later and just say you've been busy
and remember the fourth commandment of the dj bible
"thou shalt not leave messages"
love deb
penkitten
Master Don Juan
part of life, just brush it off , hold your head up high
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
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They're so small he has to make sure they're still there.:crackup:
Sorry dude. Now to the post, Sammo makes a good point about not why, but the fact that she has.