Got hooked up with this awsome girl through a friend. A week later she askes me to go to prom with her, I agreed. (prom was our second date) We get there everything is going great she all up on my s*, we leave the hole way to after prom she was all over me. we leave afterprom early because she has to work early. Drop her off at her friends so she can get her car. When we get there she is wantin it bad. So we do about everything but f* on the hood of my mustang. We leave and she says to call her the next day. I call the next day and cant get ahold of her so i leave a message. that was a week ago havent heard from her since. Her friend tells me she was seeing someone for about a week before we started talking but she really likes me alot. So why havent I heard from her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I Got Used
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Who knows what happened, girls are complicated man. There could be thousands of reasons why she's gone cold - but the golden rule is if your NOT getting what you want out of a girl - you walk.
Just **** her off, if she comes crawling back consider giving her a second chance.
Also, if you knew WHY shes gone cold, would it really help? All thats important is that she HAS.
Just **** her off, if she comes crawling back consider giving her a second chance.
Also, if you knew WHY shes gone cold, would it really help? All thats important is that she HAS.
The Master Disaster
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u got used man. Just let her go.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pap Smear..ugh might wanna consider it though 
There's no doubt about it. You got used. Just shrug it off. If this is your last prom then you don't have to worry about it again but for all you juniors out there, take a lot of time considering your prom date.
If you haven't heard from her yet, then your probably wont for a while. I'm sorry, that's just the way it seems. It happened to me at my Freshman prom. I took an 8th grader (I was nieve and she just wanted someone to take her) I had fun and all, but after I tried to get back into contact with her, she never really responded back to me. We didn't really hit it off or anything, but we did have a really good time and I was at least expecting to see her again, but I never did.
I'd just take this as a learning experience and remember for next time.
There's no doubt about it. You got used. Just shrug it off. If this is your last prom then you don't have to worry about it again but for all you juniors out there, take a lot of time considering your prom date.
If you haven't heard from her yet, then your probably wont for a while. I'm sorry, that's just the way it seems. It happened to me at my Freshman prom. I took an 8th grader (I was nieve and she just wanted someone to take her) I had fun and all, but after I tried to get back into contact with her, she never really responded back to me. We didn't really hit it off or anything, but we did have a really good time and I was at least expecting to see her again, but I never did.
I'd just take this as a learning experience and remember for next time.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i personally wouldn't have called her at all, and let her call me
if she doesn't, call her back a few days later and just say you've been busy
and remember the fourth commandment of the dj bible
"thou shalt not leave messages"
love deb
if she doesn't, call her back a few days later and just say you've been busy
and remember the fourth commandment of the dj bible
"thou shalt not leave messages"
love deb
penkitten
Master Don Juan
part of life, just brush it off , hold your head up high
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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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penkitten
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They're so small he has to make sure they're still there.:crackup:
Sorry dude. Now to the post, Sammo makes a good point about not why, but the fact that she has.