"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I got the number, but...

Dictatorsaurus

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I got the number of a girl who initially showed interest. But she gave to me as if she didn't feel comfortable doing it or as if she didn't really want to give it away. In such case, would you forget about it or persue her anyway?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bilogomja

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I would forget about it. Same thing has happened to me before. F*** her she isn't worth your time.
 

Grey Fox

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Call anyway, it'll be good practice, and allow to guage the accuracy of your gut instinct. Besides if she flakes anyway your not going to be sore about it since you already wrote her off.

-Grey Fox
 

sapphire

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If she were truly interested, she would have given it to you without hesitation. But, since you have it, I would go ahead and give her a buz anyway just to remove any doubt.
 

Carlito_Brigante

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She's probably just having mood swings. The female species tends to hesitate and change their minds often. But yeah i'd give her a buzz to relieve any doubt as well. If she shows the same reluctance when you meet up with her, and you're sure she's very hesitant, forget about her, ain't worth your time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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