"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I got the hook up, but should I use it?

BigWillyStyle

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I was chatting online to this chick, we swaped pics and she's an unfvckable ug. Bout a 5 on the babe 'o' meter. Thing is she's totally into me and wants to invite me to a girls 21st B'day party. The pics she sent me she's always surrounded by Uber Babes though, these babes will be at the party, all her friends seem super hot!

Now she most likely wants to **** me at the party, but hell no... So, you think it's ok to just go to the party and hook up infront of her face? Or should I fvck her before I go to the party(I don't want to though) then just prowl and hook up with some decent chicks anyways so she's not too hurt? What would YOU do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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Give her the "I only want to be your friend" line when you go to the party. Then she'll want you even more. Use her as social proof so you can pick up one of her hot friends.
 

thefonz

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if you wanted to try something different....

maybe you could act like your totally into her at the party like you are an AFC for her but you just wanna 'take things slow' so you can have a meaningful relationship, be a complete nice guy to her, say all the right appropriate things, open doors, don't touch her.....this will inevitably turn her off.......and in the meantime all the friends will be looking at you like, "WTF, I'm wayyy hotter than her, what is he doing?.....HEY, pay attention to ME!!!", then when the girl feels secure enough to leave you alone (or is just plain sick of you) start macking on the friend using dj skills and work your way in......I'm not gonna lie to you, i've never tried this but if you wanna experiment let me know how it turns out, think this is too much of an Ahole move?
 

crackhead

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^ i dont think thats a good idea, an ugly chick is the one who would fall for that.. thats some jack tripper sh1t

i would try to be up front with her about just wanting to be friends, hopefully that won't lead to you losing your invite to the party, because this party sounds TOO GOOD TO MISS

she will probly be bummed tho either way if you go and hook up with one of her friends

tough call
 

Desdinova

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If you act like an AFC toward her, the other women will pick up on it. Keep the attraction flowing from the ug regardless. A chick you use for Social Proof will be more effective if she's attracted to you. Keep your ticket to the party. Give her the "friends" line when you're at the party, not before.

Trust me on this, I've done it many times before. Remain friendly and attractive toward her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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