"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I got the hook up, but should I use it?

BigWillyStyle

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I was chatting online to this chick, we swaped pics and she's an unfvckable ug. Bout a 5 on the babe 'o' meter. Thing is she's totally into me and wants to invite me to a girls 21st B'day party. The pics she sent me she's always surrounded by Uber Babes though, these babes will be at the party, all her friends seem super hot!

Now she most likely wants to **** me at the party, but hell no... So, you think it's ok to just go to the party and hook up infront of her face? Or should I fvck her before I go to the party(I don't want to though) then just prowl and hook up with some decent chicks anyways so she's not too hurt? What would YOU do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Desdinova

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Give her the "I only want to be your friend" line when you go to the party. Then she'll want you even more. Use her as social proof so you can pick up one of her hot friends.
 

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if you wanted to try something different....

maybe you could act like your totally into her at the party like you are an AFC for her but you just wanna 'take things slow' so you can have a meaningful relationship, be a complete nice guy to her, say all the right appropriate things, open doors, don't touch her.....this will inevitably turn her off.......and in the meantime all the friends will be looking at you like, "WTF, I'm wayyy hotter than her, what is he doing?.....HEY, pay attention to ME!!!", then when the girl feels secure enough to leave you alone (or is just plain sick of you) start macking on the friend using dj skills and work your way in......I'm not gonna lie to you, i've never tried this but if you wanna experiment let me know how it turns out, think this is too much of an Ahole move?
 

crackhead

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^ i dont think thats a good idea, an ugly chick is the one who would fall for that.. thats some jack tripper sh1t

i would try to be up front with her about just wanting to be friends, hopefully that won't lead to you losing your invite to the party, because this party sounds TOO GOOD TO MISS

she will probly be bummed tho either way if you go and hook up with one of her friends

tough call
 

Desdinova

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If you act like an AFC toward her, the other women will pick up on it. Keep the attraction flowing from the ug regardless. A chick you use for Social Proof will be more effective if she's attracted to you. Keep your ticket to the party. Give her the "friends" line when you're at the party, not before.

Trust me on this, I've done it many times before. Remain friendly and attractive toward her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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