"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I got the girl now how do I keep her interested

tsi90

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I met a girl over winter break. We have gone on five dates and the last one I went over to her place to have dinner with her family. So far everything is great. We both really like eachother and I could see her turing into a LTR. We are both from the same town but wile in school we live over 3 hours away. There isnt much of a chance that I will be seeing her again for a few months. I already made plans with her for spring break but that assumes that I can keep her intrest in me over such a long time.

So how do I keep her interested?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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By not doing anything.
 

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Definitely do not call too much.

Always keep things positive in every convo

And when you get to **** her **** her well

Talk seductively with her

But also be a bit careful. You don't want to get hurt if it doesn't work out because of the distance.

In fact the key to think about it, you want her hanging on as your out of town girlfriend

Definitely sarge women in your town as well and keep her on the side.

Let her do a bit more of the calling.
 

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She has been doing all of the calling so far. Except for me calling to set up the first date. She knows that I like her (I told her before I left to go back to school, I know it was stupid) but Ive made it so that she always likes me just a little bit more.

She is a very good looking girl and I know that many guys at her school are after her. All of who are total AFCs and are always sucking up to her. So by making her talk to me and becomming more of a 'challenge' for her I should beable to keep her intrest?
 
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