"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I got the girl now how do I keep her interested

tsi90

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I met a girl over winter break. We have gone on five dates and the last one I went over to her place to have dinner with her family. So far everything is great. We both really like eachother and I could see her turing into a LTR. We are both from the same town but wile in school we live over 3 hours away. There isnt much of a chance that I will be seeing her again for a few months. I already made plans with her for spring break but that assumes that I can keep her intrest in me over such a long time.

So how do I keep her interested?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Definitely do not call too much.

Always keep things positive in every convo

And when you get to **** her **** her well

Talk seductively with her

But also be a bit careful. You don't want to get hurt if it doesn't work out because of the distance.

In fact the key to think about it, you want her hanging on as your out of town girlfriend

Definitely sarge women in your town as well and keep her on the side.

Let her do a bit more of the calling.
 

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She has been doing all of the calling so far. Except for me calling to set up the first date. She knows that I like her (I told her before I left to go back to school, I know it was stupid) but Ive made it so that she always likes me just a little bit more.

She is a very good looking girl and I know that many guys at her school are after her. All of who are total AFCs and are always sucking up to her. So by making her talk to me and becomming more of a 'challenge' for her I should beable to keep her intrest?
 
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