"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I got shot down by a lesbian.

crowes22

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That's right fellas. I recently got shot down by a chick I found out was gay.

It was a weird rejection. Now I've been shot down by plenty of straight women, but this one was different, it intrigued me. This chick goes to a coed college and is hot. I must admit I'm still a bit surprised she doesn't suck c0ck. At least that she's not bisexual. Nope....110% gay. This was my first experience w/ this.

When I kissed her she didn't really respond. She just let me kiss her. It was like she was testing it out. She didn't pull away like chicks do. I asked "What's wrong", no answer. She just stood there w/ her eyes still closed and let me kiss her again. Again it was like she was 'experimenting'. Again unresponsive, so I let it go.

There was no indication whatsoever of her gayness. So if other guys have had similar experiences, this may be the culprit. It was just different in every way from the no interest rejection. Oh well, onward and upward.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Just because a chick doesn't kiss you back, does not make her a dyke. Do you have any other sources?
Ha, yea I know that. But yea I have very reliable sources, but surely you don't expect me to reveal them.

I'm not so arrogant to think that every girl that doesn't want to fvck me is gay. That would make me an idiot, would it not?

I can think of plenty of girls that shot me down that I know for a fact are heterosexual females.
 

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From what you told us it sounds like she just wasn't attracted to you - not that she's a lesbian.

Moved to DJD.
 

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Question: If she was a lesbo, then why did she let you kiss her? If you knew for fact that she gets with other chicks and you got at least a kiss out of her, i would maybe think that she was bi.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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crowes22: I have seen and hear MANY things in my life, but this is deff a 1st.

If you don’t mind, could you please approach her and ask her what went on in her head? if not for u, then for me, please?:) I'm really interested to find out what she was thinking just standing there with her eye's closed, with no response, and then let u kiss her again? ... This is beyond my understanding... I hope you can post a reply to this after speaking to her and let me know what she said:up:


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
crowes22: I have seen and hear MANY things in my life, but this is deff a 1st.

If you don’t mind, could you please approach her and ask her what went on in her head? if not for u, then for me, please?:)
I would if I could but I can't. Plus I wouldn't really feel right doing that. It'd sound like I was a whiner, ya know. It's her right to say no, I drop it totally. This chick and I live over 1000 miles apart too. We didn't know each other. But we do share some mutual friends. That should clear it up for some of you guys, but no offense I was confused too, that is the only reason I'm telling this. She said something after I let it go, that triggered all this interest from me. (sorry I'm not saying what it was, as I don't know who reads this stuff) I was left thinking WTF?

Then I started thinking and asking questions b/c this was the stangest rejection I've ever gotten.

Page:Question: If she was a lesbo, then why did she let you kiss her? If you knew for fact that she gets with other chicks and you got at least a kiss out of her, i would maybe think that she was bi.

That is the thing, I DIDN'T know she got down w/ other girls. When I say kiss, recall guys this was a first time kiss, it's not like I came at her like a damn rabid dog/mouth wide open. A closed mouth kiss both times but longer than a peck. You know how chicks will try to make you try a few times before they give it up? THAT is what I thought we had. But I was wrong, plus I let it go. I initially thought it was ASD and didn't really feel like fighting that. Then she made her comment, it got me thinking.
 

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It would surprise you how many chicks out there that are lesbian. From MY experience, these girls are usually bi-tchy and completely cold to men that hit on them. I get the idea some of them just hate for men to hit on them because well.... they don't like men first of all, duh. One time I approached this one girl who was being spoon fed food by another cute girl, and when I tried to talk to her she made a strange face and said "Whaaaat?!", like she was saying what the hell do you want? Funny thing is, I had actually given her a compliment (I know, not really a pimp thing to do, but this is irrelevant here, I was just being friendly with her). I thought it over: I had never seen her with a bf (never had one from what I know), she was being spoon fed food by her "friend", and she was a complete bit-ch to me.... possibly a lesbian right? So, in conclusion, I would say the biggest bit-ch-shields come from lesbians... no matter what you say to them, it is a shield you can't penetrate.
 
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