I Got Rejected-see The Details.....

[COD]

YUP, its true although I wrote a pickup book, post tips in here, have slept with a slew of women......LAST NIGHTS DATE LASTED ALL OF 4 MIUTES.

THE PROBLEM/MISTAKE: i am average looking at best, 2 summers ago I worked out on my abs like crazy, got tanned, shaved the chest and took a really nice pic with my shirt off (mistake by the way).......posted that pic. Present day my tan is gone, oil on chest gone, hair darker and I wear shirts on dates......

GIRL: Prior to the meeting she adored my humor, loved my profile, great phone game, looked forward to my emails and text messages........WHEN WE MET she was upset that I did not look like my pic and her body language revealed that quite harshly. See having a glamour shot and not looking exactly like that pic in real life OFTEN BACK FIRES ON YOU........I could not even spit any game.......she was soooo not attracted........so I ejected to save what little respect I had left.

STATS: only about 10% of the people who post pictures look BETTER in person, 60% look worse, 30% look similar, and NOT TO FORGET......some post fake pics less than 1%. Posting old, out-dated, photo-shopped or shirtless pics end up biting in the butt.

PHILOSOPHY-I could spew some words like "if a chic is so wrapped up in a picture and that shallow, blah blah blah".......in reality us average men have to deal with the realization there are governing laws that dictate attraction. If it just aint there, best to move on.

LESSON TO BE LEARNED: online deception may backfire, know your target, and your limitations, not everyone will find you attractive. Post more than one pic.

GOOD NEWS: the next day 4 new chics with phone numbers were willing to meet.

 

[SandHawk]

Seriously, stop postingg your bullcrap. We're not interested in your stupid theories based on nothing but your own 'observations' that go against academic research.

This is like your 3rd/4th or 5th post about looks. You seem to only be bothered with looks and nothing else. Stop posting.

 

[mikeyb]

So you're saying she somehow saw through your shirt and was able to tell that your chest didn't look like your photo?? Sounds like you had a date with an airport security scanner because no living woman can do that.

 

[Korrupt]

Please stop it with these bullsh*t f*cking percentages. And you talk about being average, stop being average! You can't change your facial structure, but you can change your hair (head, face and body; groom differently), clothes, musculature, and I'm sure you can get a tan (it's summer! At least where I live).

 

[COD]

those sats that I spew are based upon a concensus.....ask any hot chic who get emails, lets say 100......50-60 look nothing like their profile, its a fact a very small percentage post fake pics for various reasons, 10% of the people actualy do look better in person, their image just does not transpose well through any lens. WHY NOT 20%-30%........again from a ton of people, from stats that i read or saw on Tv, from my own findings and experience......

very few people look a lot better in person......I mean that in a factual way, not just an opinion.......if U factor in all the editing tools, lighting, shading, computer pixels, digital tvs, etc ,etc.........how can anyone look better in person.......some do specifically 10%.

Do your own research........ask your fiends.........U may find similar results.

 

[COD]

the article was about rejection and attraction......how it can instantly go awry, if your likeness deviates slighty form the pic.

 

[todays_news]

LESSON TO BE LEARNED: online deception may backfire, know your target, and your limitations, not everyone will find you attractive. Post more than one pic.

pure gold.

so what point are you trying to make from this? that looks are important? well women think differently from men, yeah looks help a lot, but thats obvious.

However, they're not essential by any means.. helps your confidence though.

 

[COD]

LOOKS ARENT ESSENTIAL............LOL........now thats funny.

FACT-good looks make almost everything in life that much easier......ONLINE, SPEED DATING EVENTS, BAR HOOKUPS, JOB INTERVIEWS, BEING ON TV, YOUR VALIDITY, GETTING FAVORS, PERCEPTIONS, ETC ETC.

Sorry to tell ya but if your are born with model looks, and know how to exploit it to your favor........your life will be that much easier.

 

[DavenJuan]

LOOKS ARENT ESSENTIAL............LOL........now thats funny.

FACT-good looks make almost everything in life that much easier......ONLINE, SPEED DATING EVENTS, BAR HOOKUPS, JOB INTERVIEWS, BEING ON TV, YOUR VALIDITY, GETTING FAVORS, PERCEPTIONS, ETC ETC.

Sorry to tell ya but if your are born with model looks, and know how to exploit it to your favor........your life will be that much easier.

I get it COD.... By claiming that your looks are the essential tool to attracting women, it makes it all that easier when they are simply... not attracted.

when women focus only on your looks, You can give yourself that false sense of security knowing that you cannot "control" your looks, which means that she isnt actually rejecting YOU.... right..??

I call BULLSH!T

Attracting women is more about your APPEARANCE than it is your looks brother. A persons "well mannered Appearance" is less subjective than looks are.

Worry about the things you can control, not the things that are simply easier to use as an excuse.

men find it so easy to blame there failures on their "looks" ...rather than swallow their pride, work on being the best person they can be physically AND mentally, fixing their INNER GAME as well as their outter, and taking the time to realize that their looks arent the problem, their mindset is.

 

[Serg897]

Looks aren't essential. I've had a profile on an online dating site with one picture that hides the fact that I have very short hair/shaved head all the time, because I have a winter hat on.

This has NOT prevented me from being successful. Stop putting the blame on yourself and realize that this girl was probably just a b!tch. I actually think one pic may work in your favor by having more mystery associated with you. Not every girl will react positively to you when you first meet them, but that goes for anywhere.