"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I got rejected by 3 girls (2 were fat) in 10 seconds!!!

andy25

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Me and my buddies went to a club a couple days ago and there was this one hot chick i was eyeing the whole night so I decided to go upto her and asked her if she would like to dance. She simply said "no"

I was so shocked cuz this chick was giving me the smiles and looks all nite.
I had no clue what to do as I was caught off guard since I was too sure she would have said yes. I guess it was because I was too embarrased and didnt know what I was doing, i turned to one of her fat friends and she said " no".

i looked at the third girl, this one was like a baby rhino. She didnt even look at me when she said no.
I was so embarrased.
i wanted to die
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kbomb

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Wtf? Then you gave up and called it a night?
 

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I was so embarrased to continue being there so i left.

never felt that much embarrasement
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dedication

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The way you live, the way you learn. Once more you learn a lesson!
 

Vidrio

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The fatties only said no because their friend said no first. If they would've said yes their friend would've looked down on them, so they had to say no. Why did you even ask them to dance in the first place?
 

Dust 2 Dust

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You DLV'd yourself by going for her friends.

Lesson Learned- Never try to pick up women in packs.

Once a woman says no to you all her friends will reject you out of spite because they weren't your first choice.
 

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Vidrio said:
The fatties only said no because their friend said no first. If they would've said yes their friend would've looked down on them, so they had to say no. Why did you even ask them to dance in the first place?
THIS.


They only said no because their friend said it first. And not trying to make you feel more like **** but you super boosted their ego that night
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So ****ing what? She wasn't an easy catch, so she said no, she wanted YOU to work for HER. And in such situation, what do we say again? Exactly:**** her, approach a different girl, or atleast have fun. If she sees that you dont give a **** anymore she will be eager to dance with you.
 

Fatal Jay

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This dude is a rookie


the two fat girls, wanted to dance with you, but being they was in a pack, they went with the first girl

even afc know this, you have to be a professional to go for a girl in a pack, that's suicide for a rookie
 

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So fvckin what? STOP CARING, man. Do you know what you're worth? Then what the fvck do you care about some stuck up bytch and her hippo girlfriends? You're still the same same guy you were before you approached them, your worth as a person did not drop after you got rejected by them.

Know who you are, and know that you are still a great guy after some cvnt rejects you. Women are fvckin worthless anyway, man. They lie, they cheat, they manipulate, they act like spoiled little kids, they have no honor, they get butthurt over stupid sh!t, they totally SUCK. Good looks don't change a thing about that. They are pieces of sh!t wrapped in fancy golden paper...

And her girlfriends didn't even HAVE good looks. In other words, what the fvck do you care if they reject you?

Don't put bytches on a pedestal, man. They totally don't deserve it and you totally don't have to feel bad about being rejected by them.
 

visions

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irocknike23 said:
THIS.


They only said no because their friend said it first. And not trying to make you feel more like **** but you super boosted their ego that night
yup. in addition to the other females following their leader, you also gave off desperation.

next time, start with the fattie first. and lastly, after one rejection from a girl in a group, call it quits with group.
 

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I dont dance with random dudes I meet at clubs. I generally go to dance with my friends. Most guys at clubs are skeezers and only care about your bod.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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foreverAFC

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rearea said:
Most guys at clubs are skeezers and only care about your bod.

thats what guys only care about no matter where you are
 

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Never again will I ask a girl to dance again. I dont care if she stares at me 4 hours. She can approach me if she wants from now on. I aint making a fool out of myself never again
 

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I think it's best to have a conversation first, assuming the place isn't deafening.

Open and see if she (or her group) feels like talking to you. IF and only IF the conversation goes well, THEN mention dancing.

I then ask, "Are you a good dancer?" or say "Let's get out on the dance floor" and I see how she responds.

I NEVER had any success just randomly asking a chick to dance with no other conversation. It was usually a disaster. I still lol at this one...

Mike: <walks up cold> Wanna dance?

HB: <cold stare / b@tch shield>

Mike: <Takes this as a no. Starts to walk away>

<HUGE guy appears. He literally opens his lips to bare his VERY large and SHARP teeth at me like some wild animal. You can't make this up.>

Teeth: <Literally GROWLS like a bear> 'DATS MY GIRL

Mike: <whispers to his wing> We gotta get out of here.

Mike's wing: <whispers> why?

Mike: I'm about to be attacked by F-ing J A W S!!!!!

<Mike and his wing slip out the door. Mike never does a cold dance request again>

But funny stories aside, it's either conversation first or in rare cases when she asks me to dance. I rarely cold request to dance at a bar/club. (At most, I might try non-verbally by putting my hands out.). I can only do cold verbal requests in class or a formal dance.
 

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rearea said:
I dont dance with random dudes I meet at clubs. I generally go to dance with my friends. Most guys at clubs are skeezers and only care about your bod.
that's what the majority of women are they for. maybe youre the exception to the rule
 

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andy25 said:
I was so embarrased to continue being there so i left.

never felt that much embarrasement

your problem is you are a puss%

I get rejected by well over 20 people sometimes in one night unfazed....don't be embarrassed about some weak woman telling you no....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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