I got rejected BAD today

[we all eat food]

So i was at this art show for my school, i get extra credit points if i went there for art so i went, and I saw this HB6.5 so this is how the convo went

(shes looking at pictures)
Me: Hey, did you draw any of these pics
her: No, my paintings arent as good enough to get in here
me: oh, well I like to do some drawing in my spare time, and I take art in school
her: oh cool
me: so whats your name
her: Lisa
me: hm, interseting, can i get your
her: oh im sorry but im GAY

i just walked away and left the place after she said that

thats the biggest burn ever, saying that she was gay, holy ****.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Youre the biggest troll ever to hit this website.

 

[Bvbidd]

He's no troll, just a waste of a ****ing life.

Your probally uglier than her retard. That or.. mabye you should ask for her number after you say one sentence.. ever thought of that?

You have to feel it between you two.. asking random girls you see in class for a number.. they are obviously going to joke around like that.

Your a ****ing retard.

 

[we all eat food]

i wont lie at all, this is what happened, the girl is gay from what if found out from my friend, after i approcahed her

 

[Bvbidd]

i wont lie at all, this is what happened, the girl is gay from what if found out from my friend, after i approcahed her

Probally still just joking, you ****ing fool.

And if she really is gay, then what's the problem?

 

[Maximus Rex]

6.5???

Why are you wasting time with chicks that aren't even cute. That's like buying a car with bad brakes. Anyway where you effed up at is that you didn't build any rapport. You went immediately for the "close." You should've complimented her drawing style, from there build some rapport then close.

That wasn't a bad rejection. This is a bad rejection.

Rex: Hello? Is Raphonya in?. (I know. Black Chicks and their names)
Rephonya: Speaking. Who's this?
Rex: Rex. What's up? How are you doing?
Rephonya: Fine. Say can you call me back? I'm doing something.
Rex: OK.
I call back five minutes later.
Rex: Hello, is Rephonya in?
Rephonya: she answers I'm sorry, but you have the wrong number.

Another bad rejection was when I was trying to holler at this chick. Every time I called her she was short with me on the phone. Even though I've kicked it at her house a few times. This was a conversation I had with her sister.

Rex: Is Keisha in?
Keisha's Sister: Yes. Who is this?
Rex: Rex.
Keisha's Sister: WHY DO YOU KEEP CALLING HERE?
DON'T YOU KNOW THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU!!!


Those proceeding two are examples of bad rejections. What you experience was par for the course and comes to be expected. Who knows maybe babygirl was actually a dyke.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Dont ask for her name, not so early on, theres no merit in doing so.

 

[Friendly Otter]

Rex: Hello? Is Raphonya in?. (I know. Black Chicks and their names)

I am honestly curious: when did that whole thing get started, and how? Sounds like the names in some low-budget fantasy movie - or maybe I just make that comparison because I'm into fantasy lit.

 

[Rocko]

Hey guys, im new to these forums, but i have a bit of experience with women, though im no pro, but what bvbidd says is WAY true, don't feel bad about rejection cause thats a part of life, but girls may think your a bit creepy when you ask em so directly for their number you will get shut down (most of the time). Take it easy next time

 

[dannowillbookem]

man i wanna build up my guy friendships more to the point where we can laugh over rejection stories. i had a friend who got sent off to military school (crazy dad) and we'd laugh about times we got shut down and it puts it in such a different light, its really great

 

[Mission]

You asked the girl what her name was, and then asked if you could get her number. Why would she want to give you her number? What rapport have you made with her? None whatsoever, its obvious why you got shut down man. This post makes me sad.

--Mission

 

[Maximus Rex]

I am honestly curious: when did that whole thing get started, and how? Sounds like the names in some low-budget fantasy movie - or maybe I just make that comparison because I'm into fantasy lit.

I was 19 when this unfortunate incident happened. My Granny was hosting a baby shower for some extended family. My cousin came with this really hot chick. Somehow it got out that I was interested in her, and the next thing I know I'm sitting in the living room with this and the whole baby shower is waiting for me to close. It was extremely uncomfortable for the both of us. I sat there with literally nothing to say. If she had any interest in me, she probably lost it during the course of my "inactivity.

The thing is, if she wasn't interested, why did she give me her phone number? Go figure.

If you got a kick out of that one. Read this, http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=73178 I did this after knowing better.

 

[Ken88]

hey man life goes on dont beat yourself up over it

 

[Ken88]

and that really lame of all you who dont get it and think that its somehow his fault. Who cares! The important thing is to not let it get to you

 

[Dandrufman]

Your mistake was trying to get her number without first establishing rapport. When you asked her, you were a complete stranger trying to get her personal information. I dunno about you, but that (even if it was a hb) would creep me out.

Next time try talking to her for a bit longer.

 

[Muphaser]

Atleast you approached. Some people here aren't even doing that

 

[S1NN3R]

Sounds like the names in some low-budget fantasy movie

Oh please tell me I'm not the only one who got the "Rephonya" joke. I'm ROFLing.

 

[dannowillbookem]

Oh please tell me I'm not the only one who got the "Rephonya" joke. I'm ROFLing.

hehhheh just noticed