You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OUCH, that must of hurt like hell. I am sure it toughened you up thoughGangster Of Love said:Go get checked by the dentist, he can probably push them back in place without causing any damage, if there isn't already. One or ore of the teeth my die soon, and that would need you to address them them for sure.
I was knocked out by a knee when I was 12, I was playing baseball. I was the right fielder, I dove for a shallow fly ball, and the shortstop, who was about 18 at the time, and I collided and he kneed me straight in the head. I had my entire lower gum "softened" out of place, with tender teeth, and one of my higher molars broken. Had to have a crown on the top, a rooth canal on one of the lower middle teeth, and eventually a bridge, becaue i lost it.
Go get checked and start repairing this as soon as possilbe.
Definitely felt below average.mahon83050 said:OUCH, that must of hurt like hell. I am sure it toughened you up though![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's true. Unless, of course, you are WHITE and happen to say that oh-so-bad "N" word.Correct. In the United States, if someone gets in your face and calls you a ********** and then you punch him, HE is the VICTIM, not you.
Words mean nothing. The dude hit you, that is assault and battery in this country. Most likely, a misdemeanor.
99% of the black community needs to "grow the hell up" then, because most blacks almost ALWAYS resort to VIOLENCE whenever a person that is not of color mutters the "N" word.Violence isn't ever justified by harsh words, anyone who thinks otherwise needs to grow the hell up.
Yes, this is probably true.K B said:That's true. Unless, of course, you are WHITE and happen to say that oh-so-bad "N" word.
99% of the black community needs to "grow the hell up" then, because most blacks almost ALWAYS resort to VIOLENCE whenever a person that is not of color mutters the "N" word.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
djSlvt said:Danny if you go to cops guy goes to prison for aggravated assault, 4+ years. Plus medical reimbursements he own you.
Now, I'd handle that situation differently:
HE: I'm staying here to make sure you and your mate don't rape my girl
YOU: It's cool bra, I won't hate you, you can stay here if you feel insecure.
pause
YOU: Hey (girl name), you wanna go home with this guy? Go.
That achieves same as him getting insecure and punching you, showing off to his girl, as if he's so nice he can defend her when he gets insecure. She knows he's insecure, and I bet they're over. You definitely gotta fvck that girl more often from now on.