WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
I always thought she was a Hindu... Indian westernized chicks are sexy as hell
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I got played
- Thread starter Cinamon
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hey guys, I am back. I was away over the Christmas and new year break with my tree-hugging friends doing some deep soul searching, meditation and trying to rebalance my karma.
Having a bit more time to reflect over this, i realise the way i treated him was wrong, my hormones got the better of me, and i slept with him because i wanted to. its done, its dusted, it was last year. New year new beginning.
Just to comment on a few of the points that were raised. I abide by the rules of islam in Ramadhan, because it is believed that Satan is locked away for the month, and if you sin, it is your own actions and you havent been lead astray, where as the rest of the year round it can be argued that satan was responsible. Not all that logical, but it clears my conscience.
To the person that assumed i sleep around and probably have caught something. I dont sleep around, but if i do have sex with someone, i practice safe sex. I think you also said i was crap in bed, i've never had complaints yet. I'm a girl for all seasons, i like to keep things new and exciting, whethers that playing the domintarix, the exotic belly dancer or the naughty headmistress.
Oh yeah, and thanks for the comments bout indian westernized chicks
Having a bit more time to reflect over this, i realise the way i treated him was wrong, my hormones got the better of me, and i slept with him because i wanted to. its done, its dusted, it was last year. New year new beginning.
Just to comment on a few of the points that were raised. I abide by the rules of islam in Ramadhan, because it is believed that Satan is locked away for the month, and if you sin, it is your own actions and you havent been lead astray, where as the rest of the year round it can be argued that satan was responsible. Not all that logical, but it clears my conscience.
To the person that assumed i sleep around and probably have caught something. I dont sleep around, but if i do have sex with someone, i practice safe sex. I think you also said i was crap in bed, i've never had complaints yet. I'm a girl for all seasons, i like to keep things new and exciting, whethers that playing the domintarix, the exotic belly dancer or the naughty headmistress.
Oh yeah, and thanks for the comments bout indian westernized chicks
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'soul-searching, meditation, and trying to rebalance my karma' - no wonder he is keeping his distance you nut job.
Clears your conscience cos you can **** up and blame it on the paranormal even though you know it not to be the case? That's not 'conscience' honey, what you mean to say is 'that wipes my slate as far as the public eye can tell anyway'
BTW. People are only going to complain if they want to give you an opportunity to reprove yourself to them, there is no use offering instruction to the nail-n-bail type
Clears your conscience cos you can **** up and blame it on the paranormal even though you know it not to be the case? That's not 'conscience' honey, what you mean to say is 'that wipes my slate as far as the public eye can tell anyway'
BTW. People are only going to complain if they want to give you an opportunity to reprove yourself to them, there is no use offering instruction to the nail-n-bail type
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.