i got picked up by a female dj

[georgie24]

man now that ive learned a ton from this board, i realized that i got picked up by a female DJ!!, man that sucks!!

 

[FlyGuy]

why would that suck?

 

[Duff]

Yea why does that suck? now you know she is a DJ u can win her games

 

[FlyGuy]

Nevermind, I read your other post. Dude just use your common sense - is she really being a control freak that wants to keep you on a short leash? Or are you going overboard with the rules? Don't compromise your self respect or control of yourself. If she is being unreasonable and is just trying to keep the dog collar on you, then get out.

 

[georgie24]

what do you guys mean why??

think of how an alpha male gets his prize------- i was easy game for her

 

[FlyGuy]

Well, I was asking why because think about it... a DJ is supposed to be one of the best people to hook up with. The only problem here that I could think of would be control... if she wants to control you and/or the relationship then that would be a problem.

 

[gr8one]

I would LOVE to meat..er um...meet a female DJ!!!!

 

[georgie24]

you guys dont get it!

alpha-female! do you wanna be shacked up with an alphafemale

 

[AntonioMontana]

that sucks! really, i got two alphafemales, horrible expecially if you don´t know what do.
julius ceasar and marcus antonius got the same problem with cleopatra, they lost their imperium because of a alphafemale
(wtf?something is goin wrong here)

 

[georgie24]

Originally posted by AntonioMontana
that sucks! really, i got two alphafemales, horrible expecially if you don´t know what do.
julius ceasar and marcus antonius got the same problem with cleopatra, they lost their imperium because of a alphafemale
(wtf?something is goin wrong here)

finally someone understands, the other guys must not be alpha males--no offense though i thought the first bunch of responses would be more understanding

 

[Oscar Wilde]

I dunno guys, tbh I like it when a girl has an opinion, and I love it when she can be decisive, that's one of the things I didn't like about my last gf, she just couldn't decide on *anything*. I don't wanna be with a blow-up doll FFS

And I am definitely an alpha male.

Oscar.

 

[georgie24]

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
I dunno guys, tbh I like it when a girl has an opinion, and I love it when she can be decisive, that's one of the things I didn't like about my last gf, she just couldn't decide on *anything*. I don't wanna be with a blow-up doll FFS

And I am definitely an alpha male.

Oscar.

good answer

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Just thinking about this, I think a lot of these questions (including the Nice Guy thread which I can't be bothered looking for the url of) , I think a lot of these questions can be resolved by one thing: balance.

You need to balance all these things out. It *is* nice when your gf takes control once in a while. Doesn't make you any less male. So long as it's not *every* time. And as for being a Nice Guy? Well, lets just say your gf's father passes away. What are you gonna do, be an ass? Damn right you're not.

And remember that a lot of posters here are good DJs but haven't been in too many LTRs, and may be relatively young (me included in both of those btw). I'm not raggin on anyone but it's good to balance shit out. So take all these things with a grain of salt.

Oscar.

 

[FlyGuy]

George don't assume that I don't have a spine simply because I questioned your reasoning. I understand your point, but MY point is that a female DJ wouldn't necessarily have to wear the pants in the relationship. Don't project your weaknesses onto me.

 

[georgie24]

Originally posted by FlyGuy
George don't assume that I don't have a spine simply because I questioned your reasoning. I understand your point, but MY point is that a female DJ wouldn't necessarily have to wear the pants in the relationship. Don't project your weaknesses onto me.

flyfuy- no offense bro i wasnt aiming my rifle at you, i just felt misunderstood. IM GOING THROUGH some **** right now, imagine living a life for 13 months come to find out it was mostly "game"
i accept it, it kills me, i learned from it and i will grow

 

[georgie24]

IM sorry guys i fell apart