"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I feel like venting about this will help me move on to future HBs and get my mind back on track.

So I'd been chillin with this HB7-8 for about three weeks and things were going smoothly. Hook ups were frequent and easy, and she was calling me on a daily basis, I pretty much had this girl on lock.

Then thunder struck my nuts off...

So at some party I went to with some friends, she was there with some of her girl friends. She was all over me all night, and everyone was pretty much wasted by around 2 am. Anyway she went out for a cigarette break and I went to take a leak but the bathroom was occupied, so I stepped out the front door and BAM, she's hooking up with my friend right there. I was kind of wasted and didn't realize what was goin on at first, I just turned to the side and started pissing, then my friend booked out of there and she was throwing apologies at me. Confused, as my stream of piss was shooting hard into a bush and wondering wtf she was sorry for and why she would hug a pissing guy, I realized what they were doing. I got pretty pissed and would have liked to fight the guy but he left, then she got to talking to me and we talked some **** out but the night ended with me steaming and her being deaded.

Yea so....bye bye HB :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You wanted to fight the guy? For what? You obviously don't give a crap about her if you don't even recognize her making out with your friend right in front of you.

That's some serious drinkin', LOL.
 
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BustedKnucks said:
I feel like venting about this will help me move on to future HBs and get my mind back on track.

So I'd been chillin with this HB7-8 for about three weeks and things were going smoothly. Hook ups were frequent and easy, and she was calling me on a daily basis, I pretty much had this girl on lock.

Then thunder struck my nuts off...

So at some party I went to with some friends, she was there with some of her girl friends. She was all over me all night, and everyone was pretty much wasted by around 2 am. Anyway she went out for a cigarette break and I went to take a leak but the bathroom was occupied, so I stepped out the front door and BAM, she's hooking up with my friend right there. I was kind of wasted and didn't realize what was goin on at first, I just turned to the side and started pissing, then my friend booked out of there and she was throwing apologies at me. Confused, as my stream of piss was shooting hard into a bush and wondering wtf she was sorry for and why she would hug a pissing guy, I realized what they were doing. I got pretty pissed and would have liked to fight the guy but he left, then she got to talking to me and we talked some **** out but the night ended with me steaming and her being deaded.

Yea so....bye bye HB :(
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Damn it wasn't apparent that this was the only girl you planned on being with for the rest of your days? If she's not then WHO FVCKING CARES! If she's blowing your buddy what the fvck do you care? Unless you're faggin' out for the dude it makes no difference what she does or whom she does it with. You had this girl on lock? I doubt it. She waited until you were out of sight then made a move. Let me fill you in on a secret, come closer. . . closer . . .
That snowball you just tossed around in her mouth did not come from your nutsac.

Hope it helped.
 
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I guess you got your ego busted here but who cares. Move on and realize how great freedom can be ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What are you stupid go fvck that ***** and don't do more than that. Don't get mad about it either, just fvck her like she owes you money
 
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Fighting over a girl is by far one of the dumbest things. Start getting other girls and maybe when you get better you won't be worrying about 1 girl because you always know you can meet a new one.
 
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I'm normally not the type of guy to be falling for a girl, but it'd been so long since I'd been in a relationship where I actually was more enthusiastic about it than the girl that I guess I got too into this chick.

I have backups that I've been using to get my mind off her I'm just still recovering from the ego slap.
 
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Everyone falls for a girl. It is remaining the man that you are in the process. Being a DJ is not about avoiding feelings for women, its about being in control of your attachment to those feelings. It is the attachment that creates suffering, not the feelings themselves.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is she your wife???

Hors do this - get used to it!!!!!
 
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