"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BustedKnucks

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I feel like venting about this will help me move on to future HBs and get my mind back on track.

So I'd been chillin with this HB7-8 for about three weeks and things were going smoothly. Hook ups were frequent and easy, and she was calling me on a daily basis, I pretty much had this girl on lock.

Then thunder struck my nuts off...

So at some party I went to with some friends, she was there with some of her girl friends. She was all over me all night, and everyone was pretty much wasted by around 2 am. Anyway she went out for a cigarette break and I went to take a leak but the bathroom was occupied, so I stepped out the front door and BAM, she's hooking up with my friend right there. I was kind of wasted and didn't realize what was goin on at first, I just turned to the side and started pissing, then my friend booked out of there and she was throwing apologies at me. Confused, as my stream of piss was shooting hard into a bush and wondering wtf she was sorry for and why she would hug a pissing guy, I realized what they were doing. I got pretty pissed and would have liked to fight the guy but he left, then she got to talking to me and we talked some **** out but the night ended with me steaming and her being deaded.

Yea so....bye bye HB :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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realsmoothie

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You wanted to fight the guy? For what? You obviously don't give a crap about her if you don't even recognize her making out with your friend right in front of you.

That's some serious drinkin', LOL.
 

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BustedKnucks said:
I feel like venting about this will help me move on to future HBs and get my mind back on track.

So I'd been chillin with this HB7-8 for about three weeks and things were going smoothly. Hook ups were frequent and easy, and she was calling me on a daily basis, I pretty much had this girl on lock.

Then thunder struck my nuts off...

So at some party I went to with some friends, she was there with some of her girl friends. She was all over me all night, and everyone was pretty much wasted by around 2 am. Anyway she went out for a cigarette break and I went to take a leak but the bathroom was occupied, so I stepped out the front door and BAM, she's hooking up with my friend right there. I was kind of wasted and didn't realize what was goin on at first, I just turned to the side and started pissing, then my friend booked out of there and she was throwing apologies at me. Confused, as my stream of piss was shooting hard into a bush and wondering wtf she was sorry for and why she would hug a pissing guy, I realized what they were doing. I got pretty pissed and would have liked to fight the guy but he left, then she got to talking to me and we talked some **** out but the night ended with me steaming and her being deaded.

Yea so....bye bye HB :(
Damn it wasn't apparent that this was the only girl you planned on being with for the rest of your days? If she's not then WHO FVCKING CARES! If she's blowing your buddy what the fvck do you care? Unless you're faggin' out for the dude it makes no difference what she does or whom she does it with. You had this girl on lock? I doubt it. She waited until you were out of sight then made a move. Let me fill you in on a secret, come closer. . . closer . . .
That snowball you just tossed around in her mouth did not come from your nutsac.

Hope it helped.
 

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I guess you got your ego busted here but who cares. Move on and realize how great freedom can be ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are you stupid go fvck that ***** and don't do more than that. Don't get mad about it either, just fvck her like she owes you money
 

Distant Light

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Fighting over a girl is by far one of the dumbest things. Start getting other girls and maybe when you get better you won't be worrying about 1 girl because you always know you can meet a new one.
 

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I'm normally not the type of guy to be falling for a girl, but it'd been so long since I'd been in a relationship where I actually was more enthusiastic about it than the girl that I guess I got too into this chick.

I have backups that I've been using to get my mind off her I'm just still recovering from the ego slap.
 

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Everyone falls for a girl. It is remaining the man that you are in the process. Being a DJ is not about avoiding feelings for women, its about being in control of your attachment to those feelings. It is the attachment that creates suffering, not the feelings themselves.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is she your wife???

Hors do this - get used to it!!!!!
 
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