"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I got her number....

stevoo

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Hi,

I have a problem.

How long should I take, to call a girl when I get her number?

When I talk to the girl, how long should I go on a date? In three, four or five days? If I plan a date a week from now, would I loose her?


Steve...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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btownbuck2012

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Depends on what day you got her #. If it was on the weekend (Friday, Saturday) wait until tuesday or wednesday. Otherwise, IMO 3-5 days is money. Also make sure the first date doesn't cost **** and it's not on the weekend.

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I got her number Thursday and we talked Friday. We both made plans to go out this Tuesday night. The funny thing, this girl is hot and I have to play the right game with this one. Any ideas..
 

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Read "Keys to Don Juan" by Pook. Just do a search for it and you should be able to find it. It pretty much sums how u should act on a date.
 

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Whatever happened to reading the DJ Bible? It's obvious many more should be reading it before posting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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