"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stevoo

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Hi,

I have a problem.

How long should I take, to call a girl when I get her number?

When I talk to the girl, how long should I go on a date? In three, four or five days? If I plan a date a week from now, would I loose her?


Steve...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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btownbuck2012

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Depends on what day you got her #. If it was on the weekend (Friday, Saturday) wait until tuesday or wednesday. Otherwise, IMO 3-5 days is money. Also make sure the first date doesn't cost **** and it's not on the weekend.

-btown
 

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I got her number Thursday and we talked Friday. We both made plans to go out this Tuesday night. The funny thing, this girl is hot and I have to play the right game with this one. Any ideas..
 

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Read "Keys to Don Juan" by Pook. Just do a search for it and you should be able to find it. It pretty much sums how u should act on a date.
 

Young Juan

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Whatever happened to reading the DJ Bible? It's obvious many more should be reading it before posting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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