"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I got her number ... then what ???? :s

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Hey guys;

There's this gurl at university, she's so ****en hot, i cant say i love her, i've barely spoken to her, but anyway, i have seen her rejecting people who asked for her number ... i thought long before i decided to ask her ... and when i did ask her for her number because i needed to get homework from her, i got a straight answer :|

Ok, i got her number, now what ?? ... should i call her private number ? what should i say ?? should i ask her about homework ??? .,.. how should my tone be ?? well, after alot of thinking, i called her at 11:00 p.m ... my number was private ... and she didint answer, should i try again ?? what should i do now ??

I got no idea :| ... HELP ! URGENT !
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LOL, first things first... take a chill pill.

You should leave a message if she don't pick up the next time you try to call her. No need to get creative with the message either, just say "Hey, it's (your name here) give me a call back when you get this my number is (insert number here).".

Oh and never try to call more than once a day.
 
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My god :| ... so simple ... sunno why i didint think of that ...

Thanks alot bro :)

Dannyrt34 said:
LOL, first things first... take a chill pill.

You should leave a message if she don't pick up the next time you try to call her. No need to get creative with the message either, just say "Hey, it's (your name here) give me a call back when you get this my number is (insert number here).".

Oh and never try to call more than once a day.
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Call a couple days later you get the number and say..

"Hey This is [insert name here], we met at [insert place you guys met at] are you available on [A day you are available on]? (if she says no ask her another day you're available on), I'd like to bring you out on a date at [place you want to go] I'll pick you up at [Time and place to pick her up]."
 
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... i thought long before i decided to ask her ... and when i did ask her for her number because i needed to get homework from her, i got a straight answer :|
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That's because you weren't asking her for the number with "I want to jump your bones" written all over your face during your request for her number. Remember the hotter the chick, the more finely tuned the radar.

Now for the callback - Dannyrt34's response (IMHO) was spot on. Chill and don't overanalyze. Keep the message short and to the point. To her, you're just someone who needs homework, that's all, so keep that in mind. You did have the nuts to ask for the number when you saw her turn someone else away, so maybe you can leverage that for some study time (alone) together.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Calling her after about 10pm sounds kinda dumb.

Also, read the dang Bible man.
 
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Of course! Why do you think I chose your thread to answer? It didn't require much thinking.

You'll start to know what to do as you gain experience, that's how everyone should learn. It's how I did.

inlove101 said:
My god :| ... so simple ... sunno why i didint think of that ...

Thanks alot bro :)
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