I got her number ... then what ???? :s

[inlove101]

Hey guys;

There's this gurl at university, she's so ****en hot, i cant say i love her, i've barely spoken to her, but anyway, i have seen her rejecting people who asked for her number ... i thought long before i decided to ask her ... and when i did ask her for her number because i needed to get homework from her, i got a straight answer :|

Ok, i got her number, now what ?? ... should i call her private number ? what should i say ?? should i ask her about homework ??? .,.. how should my tone be ?? well, after alot of thinking, i called her at 11:00 p.m ... my number was private ... and she didint answer, should i try again ?? what should i do now ??

I got no idea :| ... HELP ! URGENT !

 

[Dannyrt34]

LOL, first things first... take a chill pill.

You should leave a message if she don't pick up the next time you try to call her. No need to get creative with the message either, just say "Hey, it's (your name here) give me a call back when you get this my number is (insert number here).".

Oh and never try to call more than once a day.

 

[inlove101]

My god :| ... so simple ... sunno why i didint think of that ...

Thanks alot bro

LOL, first things first... take a chill pill.

You should leave a message if she don't pick up the next time you try to call her. No need to get creative with the message either, just say "Hey, it's (your name here) give me a call back when you get this my number is (insert number here).".

Oh and never try to call more than once a day.

 

[NotaNewbie]

Call a couple days later you get the number and say..

"Hey This is [insert name here], we met at [insert place you guys met at] are you available on [A day you are available on]? (if she says no ask her another day you're available on), I'd like to bring you out on a date at [place you want to go] I'll pick you up at [Time and place to pick her up]."

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

... i thought long before i decided to ask her ... and when i did ask her for her number because i needed to get homework from her, i got a straight answer :|

That's because you weren't asking her for the number with "I want to jump your bones" written all over your face during your request for her number. Remember the hotter the chick, the more finely tuned the radar.

Now for the callback - Dannyrt34's response (IMHO) was spot on. Chill and don't overanalyze. Keep the message short and to the point. To her, you're just someone who needs homework, that's all, so keep that in mind. You did have the nuts to ask for the number when you saw her turn someone else away, so maybe you can leverage that for some study time (alone) together.

Good Luck...

 

[Obsidian]

Calling her after about 10pm sounds kinda dumb.

Also, read the dang Bible man.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Of course! Why do you think I chose your thread to answer? It didn't require much thinking.

You'll start to know what to do as you gain experience, that's how everyone should learn. It's how I did.

My god :| ... so simple ... sunno why i didint think of that ...

Thanks alot bro