"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got her number from pof (online) earlier, how to text and transition?

Stephen89

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So I joined pof earlier today and I guess when my profile came up she clicked the button 'meet me' which I then got an announcement.

I sent her a message which she replied something like "please contact me via whatsapp, here is my number xxxxxxxxxxxx".

I'm about to send her a message, what should I send?

"hey you gave me your number from pof earlier" "so tell me more about yourself"?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hello, I'm Stephen from dating site, how are you?

Usually prostitutes give their numbers like that, even if you're a hot guy. See where it takes you. Don't get excited over this, you haven't met her, you don't what the fvck it's all about. Say hello, ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, ask her what she looking for in online dating, etc. I got a number like that as well, I will not be messaging her for couple of days.
 

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Hello, I'm Stephen from dating site, how are you?

Usually prostitutes give their numbers like that, even if you're a hot guy. See where it takes you. Don't get excited over this, you haven't met her, you don't what the fvck it's all about. Say hello, ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, ask her what she looking for in online dating, etc. I got a number like that as well, I will not be messaging her for couple of days.
Thank you very much! Yeah I'll try this approach.
 

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Hello, I'm Stephen from dating site, how are you?

Usually prostitutes give their numbers like that, even if you're a hot guy. See where it takes you. Don't get excited over this, you haven't met her, you don't what the fvck it's all about. Say hello, ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, ask her what she looking for in online dating, etc. I got a number like that as well, I will not be messaging her for couple of days.
That's what I was thinking.... Bot
 

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Uh that's not a real person reaching out to you. Sorry dude.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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