"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got her number from pof (online) earlier, how to text and transition?

Stephen89

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So I joined pof earlier today and I guess when my profile came up she clicked the button 'meet me' which I then got an announcement.

I sent her a message which she replied something like "please contact me via whatsapp, here is my number xxxxxxxxxxxx".

I'm about to send her a message, what should I send?

"hey you gave me your number from pof earlier" "so tell me more about yourself"?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hello, I'm Stephen from dating site, how are you?

Usually prostitutes give their numbers like that, even if you're a hot guy. See where it takes you. Don't get excited over this, you haven't met her, you don't what the fvck it's all about. Say hello, ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, ask her what she looking for in online dating, etc. I got a number like that as well, I will not be messaging her for couple of days.
 

Stephen89

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Hello, I'm Stephen from dating site, how are you?

Usually prostitutes give their numbers like that, even if you're a hot guy. See where it takes you. Don't get excited over this, you haven't met her, you don't what the fvck it's all about. Say hello, ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, ask her what she looking for in online dating, etc. I got a number like that as well, I will not be messaging her for couple of days.
Thank you very much! Yeah I'll try this approach.
 

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Hello, I'm Stephen from dating site, how are you?

Usually prostitutes give their numbers like that, even if you're a hot guy. See where it takes you. Don't get excited over this, you haven't met her, you don't what the fvck it's all about. Say hello, ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, ask her what she looking for in online dating, etc. I got a number like that as well, I will not be messaging her for couple of days.
That's what I was thinking.... Bot
 

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Uh that's not a real person reaching out to you. Sorry dude.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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