"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I got Dissed By Shy UG Girl

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Wow today i got dissed by a shy ugly senior girl (i'm a junior) whom i sit next to in a class. I didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.

My only come back was "If making fun of me increases your low self esteem, take a shot"

Her male friend came in and all of a sudden her confidence rose to the roof and they started launching insults at me out of no where (from my head size to my gf to how i think). I'm generally a nice person to people but jesus christ. I guess some people need to feel happy once in a while.

Seniors are insane. They live in their own world, whatever, they are ugly anyways (especially the girl). There "misery" won't drag me down.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rata Blanca

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So instead of associating insulting you with crying she associated insulting you with feeling good, nice!
 

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Rata Blanca said:
So instead of associating insulting you with crying she associated insulting you with feeling good, nice!
my thoughts exactly. I would have either A.) Shot something back or B.) did something to make them look like a dumb@$$.

Don't ever let someone step on you or other people will see it as OK. I let them do this and my life went to hell for far too long.

comic_relief
 

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Precursor said:
WI didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.
Dude.....

That's why you don't care about other people's feelings man, just like I do. :up:

Simply shut her ugly ass up with this next time:

If she is fat:

"Hey whale get back in the water."

If she is ugly:

"Put a paper bag over your face *****, you're mooning me."
 

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and some followup stuff that I find is extremely effective:

Fat ppl:

If she shoots back a comment, just pinch her fat roll and be like . . . "hmm that must keep you warm."

Ugly ppl:

Just ask if any guy would bang her. No guy will say yes if she is ugly
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hahahaaa.....?

In the first place why was she making fun of you. Anyways if shes retarded its good you gave her a shot, at least we know shes happy for the first time in her life. :D
 

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I mean I'm a senior and I *think* this junior b!tch in my photo class said something snide ot me once. I didnt honestly learn what she said, except that her friends[who all like me a lot lol, i just ignore this stupid scene-girl] made it seem like shed said something harsh.
Its okay, shes been pretty nice to me since, probably because shes heard em rag on other people and knows shed get torn apart.

take it with a grain of salt. she felt the need to insult you because she doesnt have much power in the first place being ugly and all. you jsut let it happen thou, which tells her shes got tons more power than you.
next time fire back n fire hard.
*not literallly*
 

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a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
 

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Precursor said:
Wow today i got dissed by a shy ugly senior girl (i'm a junior) whom i sit next to in a class. I didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.

My only come back was "If making fun of me increases your low self esteem, take a shot"

Her male friend came in and all of a sudden her confidence rose to the roof and they started launching insults at me out of no where (from my head size to my gf to how i think). I'm generally a nice person to people but jesus christ. I guess some people need to feel happy once in a while.

Seniors are insane. They live in their own world, whatever, they are ugly anyways (especially the girl). There "misery" won't drag me down.
haha this works great
i use it all the time whenever people want to diss me
"You know what? you are really starting to hurt my feelings"
it shows that you are not being offended and you could give a mothers a$$ about it.
also C&F works great in these situations. ive talked my ways out of many fights because of C&F
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Precursor said:
Wow today i got dissed by a shy ugly senior girl (i'm a junior) whom i sit next to in a class. I didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.

My only come back was "If making fun of me increases your low self esteem, take a shot"

Her male friend came in and all of a sudden her confidence rose to the roof and they started launching insults at me out of no where (from my head size to my gf to how i think). I'm generally a nice person to people but jesus christ. I guess some people need to feel happy once in a while.

Seniors are insane. They live in their own world, whatever, they are ugly anyways (especially the girl). There "misery" won't drag me down.
Well I hope you don't let this SLOBBERBEAST get to you. Trust me, if you dissed her back, it would have a far greater impact on her than her dissing you-but it's not worth your energy.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm saying Precursor.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm saying Precursor.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm saying Precursor.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm telling you Precursor.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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