"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got Dissed By Shy UG Girl

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Wow today i got dissed by a shy ugly senior girl (i'm a junior) whom i sit next to in a class. I didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.

My only come back was "If making fun of me increases your low self esteem, take a shot"

Her male friend came in and all of a sudden her confidence rose to the roof and they started launching insults at me out of no where (from my head size to my gf to how i think). I'm generally a nice person to people but jesus christ. I guess some people need to feel happy once in a while.

Seniors are insane. They live in their own world, whatever, they are ugly anyways (especially the girl). There "misery" won't drag me down.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So instead of associating insulting you with crying she associated insulting you with feeling good, nice!
 

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Rata Blanca said:
So instead of associating insulting you with crying she associated insulting you with feeling good, nice!
my thoughts exactly. I would have either A.) Shot something back or B.) did something to make them look like a dumb@$$.

Don't ever let someone step on you or other people will see it as OK. I let them do this and my life went to hell for far too long.

comic_relief
 

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Precursor said:
WI didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.
Dude.....

That's why you don't care about other people's feelings man, just like I do. :up:

Simply shut her ugly ass up with this next time:

If she is fat:

"Hey whale get back in the water."

If she is ugly:

"Put a paper bag over your face *****, you're mooning me."
 

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and some followup stuff that I find is extremely effective:

Fat ppl:

If she shoots back a comment, just pinch her fat roll and be like . . . "hmm that must keep you warm."

Ugly ppl:

Just ask if any guy would bang her. No guy will say yes if she is ugly
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hahahaaa.....?

In the first place why was she making fun of you. Anyways if shes retarded its good you gave her a shot, at least we know shes happy for the first time in her life. :D
 

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I mean I'm a senior and I *think* this junior b!tch in my photo class said something snide ot me once. I didnt honestly learn what she said, except that her friends[who all like me a lot lol, i just ignore this stupid scene-girl] made it seem like shed said something harsh.
Its okay, shes been pretty nice to me since, probably because shes heard em rag on other people and knows shed get torn apart.

take it with a grain of salt. she felt the need to insult you because she doesnt have much power in the first place being ugly and all. you jsut let it happen thou, which tells her shes got tons more power than you.
next time fire back n fire hard.
*not literallly*
 

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a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
 

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Precursor said:
Wow today i got dissed by a shy ugly senior girl (i'm a junior) whom i sit next to in a class. I didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.

My only come back was "If making fun of me increases your low self esteem, take a shot"

Her male friend came in and all of a sudden her confidence rose to the roof and they started launching insults at me out of no where (from my head size to my gf to how i think). I'm generally a nice person to people but jesus christ. I guess some people need to feel happy once in a while.

Seniors are insane. They live in their own world, whatever, they are ugly anyways (especially the girl). There "misery" won't drag me down.
haha this works great
i use it all the time whenever people want to diss me
"You know what? you are really starting to hurt my feelings"
it shows that you are not being offended and you could give a mothers a$$ about it.
also C&F works great in these situations. ive talked my ways out of many fights because of C&F
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Precursor said:
Wow today i got dissed by a shy ugly senior girl (i'm a junior) whom i sit next to in a class. I didn't launch a come back because i did not want to make her cry.

My only come back was "If making fun of me increases your low self esteem, take a shot"

Her male friend came in and all of a sudden her confidence rose to the roof and they started launching insults at me out of no where (from my head size to my gf to how i think). I'm generally a nice person to people but jesus christ. I guess some people need to feel happy once in a while.

Seniors are insane. They live in their own world, whatever, they are ugly anyways (especially the girl). There "misery" won't drag me down.
Well I hope you don't let this SLOBBERBEAST get to you. Trust me, if you dissed her back, it would have a far greater impact on her than her dissing you-but it's not worth your energy.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm saying Precursor.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm saying Precursor.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm saying Precursor.
 

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dirtyvibe said:
a 300 lb girl used to try to mess with me a lot and eventually i just told her she was a cow. she cried for the rest of the class period like andy wang after losing his fight. and she was 18 lo
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

What dirtyvibe did was a perfect illustration of what I'm telling you Precursor.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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