"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm 16 yrs old, and a 10th graded. My uncle introduced me to the site last year. I did alot of reading and alot of practicing, very few posting. My goal was to master the techniques that it took to become the ultimate DJ. So after I thought I'd learned all it took to succeding with females, I just forgot about the website. I thought I knew it all. I thought I had all the answers. So I went out and showed confidence, displayed all the right amounts of kino, and was for the most part just being myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Towards the start of my freshmen year, I could've sworn i had it all figured out. Girls that normally wouldn't talk to me. I was clicking with plenty upperclassmens. Plenty of my friends was becoming jealous, no one thought a person could change so much over a summer.(THIS IS MY 9th GRADE YEAR) Everything was going good, i'd never received as much female attention before. But then one day i meet this new girl. Right away i let her kno that i was interested in her but didnt need her, with my actions.
 
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We immediately started kicking it. What started out as practice, ended up becoming much more. In my head i started to develop crazy feelings for this girl. I'm talking LTR. And when i allowed myself to process these thoughts, i completely broke down. I had no idea how to go about being in a relationship, so i punked out. I realized then that i was not a DJ yet, and merely just an AFC. But this was the girl of my dreams i couldn't let her go, so i continued to talk to her. But i ended up in the friend zone.
 
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Im just gonna repeat myself from last time i saw a post by you:

FreshMenTank!!!

hahaha :)
Seeing your name quite a lot on the bb teen forum, so you got my respect. However, I have no idea what to reply. Post like these tend to wither away immediately due to not being clear in their point.
 
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djghost said:
I'm not completely sure what you want. LTR advice?
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Exactly, how do i suceed in a LTR? It seems as if the whole game changes. Because i'm no longer doing what i got to do to get the girl, now i'm trying to keep her. Or am i messing myself up by trying to hold on? Should i keep acting as if im trying to get to her? That's what i need, how to be successful in a LTR?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FreshMenTank said:
Exactly, how do i suceed in a LTR? It seems as if the whole game changes. Because i'm no longer doing what i got to do to get the girl, now i'm trying to keep her. Or am i messing myself up by trying to hold on? Should i keep acting as if im trying to get to her? That's what i need, how to be successful in a LTR?
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Don't get into one ;)
 
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Why didn't you ask me about this yesterday?
 
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Why didn't you ask me about this yesterday?
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you never give me a straight answer. i thought i knew it all, i thought i had what it takes, but i guess not. i still got alot to learn. i'm becoming frustrated with myself.
 
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