"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm 16 yrs old, and a 10th graded. My uncle introduced me to the site last year. I did alot of reading and alot of practicing, very few posting. My goal was to master the techniques that it took to become the ultimate DJ. So after I thought I'd learned all it took to succeding with females, I just forgot about the website. I thought I knew it all. I thought I had all the answers. So I went out and showed confidence, displayed all the right amounts of kino, and was for the most part just being myself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Towards the start of my freshmen year, I could've sworn i had it all figured out. Girls that normally wouldn't talk to me. I was clicking with plenty upperclassmens. Plenty of my friends was becoming jealous, no one thought a person could change so much over a summer.(THIS IS MY 9th GRADE YEAR) Everything was going good, i'd never received as much female attention before. But then one day i meet this new girl. Right away i let her kno that i was interested in her but didnt need her, with my actions.
 
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We immediately started kicking it. What started out as practice, ended up becoming much more. In my head i started to develop crazy feelings for this girl. I'm talking LTR. And when i allowed myself to process these thoughts, i completely broke down. I had no idea how to go about being in a relationship, so i punked out. I realized then that i was not a DJ yet, and merely just an AFC. But this was the girl of my dreams i couldn't let her go, so i continued to talk to her. But i ended up in the friend zone.
 
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Im just gonna repeat myself from last time i saw a post by you:

FreshMenTank!!!

hahaha :)
Seeing your name quite a lot on the bb teen forum, so you got my respect. However, I have no idea what to reply. Post like these tend to wither away immediately due to not being clear in their point.
 
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djghost said:
I'm not completely sure what you want. LTR advice?
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Exactly, how do i suceed in a LTR? It seems as if the whole game changes. Because i'm no longer doing what i got to do to get the girl, now i'm trying to keep her. Or am i messing myself up by trying to hold on? Should i keep acting as if im trying to get to her? That's what i need, how to be successful in a LTR?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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FreshMenTank said:
Exactly, how do i suceed in a LTR? It seems as if the whole game changes. Because i'm no longer doing what i got to do to get the girl, now i'm trying to keep her. Or am i messing myself up by trying to hold on? Should i keep acting as if im trying to get to her? That's what i need, how to be successful in a LTR?
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Don't get into one ;)
 
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Why didn't you ask me about this yesterday?
 
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Why didn't you ask me about this yesterday?
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you never give me a straight answer. i thought i knew it all, i thought i had what it takes, but i guess not. i still got alot to learn. i'm becoming frustrated with myself.
 
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