"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm 16 yrs old, and a 10th graded. My uncle introduced me to the site last year. I did alot of reading and alot of practicing, very few posting. My goal was to master the techniques that it took to become the ultimate DJ. So after I thought I'd learned all it took to succeding with females, I just forgot about the website. I thought I knew it all. I thought I had all the answers. So I went out and showed confidence, displayed all the right amounts of kino, and was for the most part just being myself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Towards the start of my freshmen year, I could've sworn i had it all figured out. Girls that normally wouldn't talk to me. I was clicking with plenty upperclassmens. Plenty of my friends was becoming jealous, no one thought a person could change so much over a summer.(THIS IS MY 9th GRADE YEAR) Everything was going good, i'd never received as much female attention before. But then one day i meet this new girl. Right away i let her kno that i was interested in her but didnt need her, with my actions.
 
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We immediately started kicking it. What started out as practice, ended up becoming much more. In my head i started to develop crazy feelings for this girl. I'm talking LTR. And when i allowed myself to process these thoughts, i completely broke down. I had no idea how to go about being in a relationship, so i punked out. I realized then that i was not a DJ yet, and merely just an AFC. But this was the girl of my dreams i couldn't let her go, so i continued to talk to her. But i ended up in the friend zone.
 
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Im just gonna repeat myself from last time i saw a post by you:

FreshMenTank!!!

hahaha :)
Seeing your name quite a lot on the bb teen forum, so you got my respect. However, I have no idea what to reply. Post like these tend to wither away immediately due to not being clear in their point.
 
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djghost said:
I'm not completely sure what you want. LTR advice?
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Exactly, how do i suceed in a LTR? It seems as if the whole game changes. Because i'm no longer doing what i got to do to get the girl, now i'm trying to keep her. Or am i messing myself up by trying to hold on? Should i keep acting as if im trying to get to her? That's what i need, how to be successful in a LTR?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FreshMenTank said:
Exactly, how do i suceed in a LTR? It seems as if the whole game changes. Because i'm no longer doing what i got to do to get the girl, now i'm trying to keep her. Or am i messing myself up by trying to hold on? Should i keep acting as if im trying to get to her? That's what i need, how to be successful in a LTR?
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Don't get into one ;)
 
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Why didn't you ask me about this yesterday?
 
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Why didn't you ask me about this yesterday?
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you never give me a straight answer. i thought i knew it all, i thought i had what it takes, but i guess not. i still got alot to learn. i'm becoming frustrated with myself.
 
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