I got a reply from a model on IG, what to reply back

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I messaged this women:

-hey beautiful, I am an interesting man(yes, lame first message).

Surprisingly, hardly any beautiful women on Instagram reply back, this one did.

Which she replied:

"Is the interesting man in the room with us"?

I'm not sure how to read around this reply?
 

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Hahaha she got you good with that lame opener.

“We’ll see if he decides to come - Have you traveled to any exciting places this year?”
 

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Ok, it looks like she isn't interested. Then why bother replying.
 

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I'm not sure how to read around this reply?
That message indicates that she years for you, with the same ferocity she yearns to return home from The Amazon, with a souvenir

such as this
 

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Act lame, get grouped into the same 95% bucket as other guys they roll their eyes at.

Why send something like that if you already know it's lame?
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It was a lame opener. I am surprised he got a response.

Ignore this, work on better openers if using DMs on social media. Better yet, go out into the real world and do approaches with good openers.
 

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I messaged this women:

-hey beautiful, I am an interesting man(yes, lame first message).

Surprisingly, hardly any beautiful women on Instagram reply back, this one did.

Which she replied:

"Is the interesting man in the room with us"?

I'm not sure how to read around this reply?
Thats not a good opener to use. Besides being lame and arrogant, it puts you in a position to qualify yourself to her which is never good.

I would have found some interesting pic of hers and teased her/asked a question about it/made a funny comment.
 

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Don't send the gorgeous woman money before you meet him her.
 

Stephen89

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Thats not a good opener to use. Besides being lame and arrogant, it puts you in a position to qualify yourself to her which is never good.

I would have found some interesting pic of hers and teased her/asked a question about it/made a funny comment.
Would you give an example in this situation on what you would have written to tease her/make a funny comment?
 
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