"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ChrizZ

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Hi,
I recently met this HB8 in my PE class. She was really interested in me. She asked where I live, what kinda music I like etc. She also mentioned her bf a couple of times. I just ignored that and had some interesting conversations with her, but there are like 3 guys that are flirting with her all the time, use kino, use jerk behaviour etc. She is kinoing them back, too. My question: How can I be different from them? I also know her boyfriend. He´s the typical jerk dumba$$, that all women love because he grabs their boobs and a$$.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Trapper

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dude the answer is already there... read couple of times your writing..
 

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are u serius??

she asked where u live and what kind of music u listen? wow, she must be all over u.

i'd say forget about her.

but here's one suggestion what u can do:

1. befriend these other guys flirting her. vibe with them. she must first perceive ur value equal or higher than these other guys.

2. hang out with her outside the class. inside the class do DHV to other guys (while she is listening of course) but slightly tease/neg the girl. outside the class qualify her and move into rapport. meet her again and escalate.
 

ChrizZ

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LionOne said:
are u serius??

she asked where u live and what kind of music u listen? wow, she must be all over u.

i'd say forget about her.

but here's one suggestion what u can do:

1. befriend these other guys flirting her. vibe with them. she must first perceive ur value equal or higher than these other guys.

2. hang out with her outside the class. inside the class do DHV to other guys (while she is listening of course) but slightly tease/neg the girl. outside the class qualify her and move into rapport. meet her again and escalate.
Well, she just comes up to me and starts a conversation. I think that she´s attracted to me because even when she flirts with the jerks, she turns around and starts talking to me and gives them the cold shoulder and she´s looking for EC alot when I walk in the hallway. Well, I guess I´ll just have to kino her, the next time I see her. I´m not gonna befriend with those totally arrogant a$$holes. I don´t need to copy someone elses style. I know the basics, I just forgot to use them... . I´m not even really into that girl, but I think it would be good practice for me...
 

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... I know the basics, I just forgot to use them... . I´m not even really into that girl, but I think it would be good practice for me...[/QUOTE]

you've said it all right here
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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