"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ChrizZ

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Hi,
I recently met this HB8 in my PE class. She was really interested in me. She asked where I live, what kinda music I like etc. She also mentioned her bf a couple of times. I just ignored that and had some interesting conversations with her, but there are like 3 guys that are flirting with her all the time, use kino, use jerk behaviour etc. She is kinoing them back, too. My question: How can I be different from them? I also know her boyfriend. He´s the typical jerk dumba$$, that all women love because he grabs their boobs and a$$.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dude the answer is already there... read couple of times your writing..
 

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are u serius??

she asked where u live and what kind of music u listen? wow, she must be all over u.

i'd say forget about her.

but here's one suggestion what u can do:

1. befriend these other guys flirting her. vibe with them. she must first perceive ur value equal or higher than these other guys.

2. hang out with her outside the class. inside the class do DHV to other guys (while she is listening of course) but slightly tease/neg the girl. outside the class qualify her and move into rapport. meet her again and escalate.
 

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LionOne said:
are u serius??

she asked where u live and what kind of music u listen? wow, she must be all over u.

i'd say forget about her.

but here's one suggestion what u can do:

1. befriend these other guys flirting her. vibe with them. she must first perceive ur value equal or higher than these other guys.

2. hang out with her outside the class. inside the class do DHV to other guys (while she is listening of course) but slightly tease/neg the girl. outside the class qualify her and move into rapport. meet her again and escalate.
Well, she just comes up to me and starts a conversation. I think that she´s attracted to me because even when she flirts with the jerks, she turns around and starts talking to me and gives them the cold shoulder and she´s looking for EC alot when I walk in the hallway. Well, I guess I´ll just have to kino her, the next time I see her. I´m not gonna befriend with those totally arrogant a$$holes. I don´t need to copy someone elses style. I know the basics, I just forgot to use them... . I´m not even really into that girl, but I think it would be good practice for me...
 

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... I know the basics, I just forgot to use them... . I´m not even really into that girl, but I think it would be good practice for me...[/QUOTE]

you've said it all right here
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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