"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got a hicky from a woman my FWB and another woman who i am sure who is into me saw it

corona20

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Is this type of thing a turn on for them because "other women" want me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hal9000

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When I was very openly seeing multiple women they would always do stuff like that to let the others know they had been there. None of them cared seeing it but they all knew the deal. You don't want that going on if you're actually seeing someone.
 

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Hi Corona,
During the frothy exuberance of youth,I used be a Footballer,real Football, Rugby Union once while travelling by train between games,one of our Likely Lads thought it a fun idea to give a hicky,we called them Love Bites to the Team Bully...Though there were rumours no one ever found out how this effected his Love Life he sure as Hell behaved better to us after it.
 

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Hi Corona,
During the frothy exuberance of youth,I used be a Footballer,real Football, Rugby Union once while travelling by train between games,one of our Likely Lads thought it a fun idea to give a hicky,we called them Love Bites to the Team Bully...Though there were rumours no one ever found out how this effected his Love Life he sure as Hell behaved better to us after it.
At least you didn't bite off his ear Mike Tyson style.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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corona20

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When I was very openly seeing multiple women they would always do stuff like that to let the others know they had been there. None of them cared seeing it but they all knew the deal. You don't want that going on if you're actually seeing someone.
wouldn't other women see this as "other women want him" so i want him too type deal?" or is it a turn off?
 

IKO69

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You're overthinking things man. Yes, women value men who are in demand by other women. In your case no one can tell you how she will have taken it- she may be unbothered by it or turned off. You'll only know by how she acts when you talk to her.

The whole preselection thing doesn't mean you should go around tongueing every female around a woman that likes you lol. Women appreciate men who are discrete - you want your demeanor & vibe to speak for you. Don't "kiss and tell". Higher quality women CAN be wary of guys that are openly **** boys.
 
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