"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ever talk to a girl...just to add friend base? and she ends up liking you...and you know this...you don't flirt with her...NO kino...no nothing...ur just friendly as if you were anyone else that was your friend.

however she likes you...you know she likes you...and unfortantely, so does her cute friend that you met that you are into as well...

obviously i want to get with her friend...i've small talked her online prior to seeing her. i believe we connected in person...with the little conversation we had with eachother (1 on 1) and connected well when we were all talking (all of us [3]) tonight. they are best friends.

i personally never had to go thru this...rather then being blunt in what i want. friends with the girl that is into me, and wanting to go out with her friend.

share experiences and advice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So call the one you like and make plans to go out. The other one will just have to deal with it, but that's her problem and not yours.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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