"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ever talk to a girl...just to add friend base? and she ends up liking you...and you know this...you don't flirt with her...NO kino...no nothing...ur just friendly as if you were anyone else that was your friend.

however she likes you...you know she likes you...and unfortantely, so does her cute friend that you met that you are into as well...

obviously i want to get with her friend...i've small talked her online prior to seeing her. i believe we connected in person...with the little conversation we had with eachother (1 on 1) and connected well when we were all talking (all of us [3]) tonight. they are best friends.

i personally never had to go thru this...rather then being blunt in what i want. friends with the girl that is into me, and wanting to go out with her friend.

share experiences and advice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So call the one you like and make plans to go out. The other one will just have to deal with it, but that's her problem and not yours.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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