I got a girl thats a 10 but she's terrible in bed what should I do

[Ranger]

I think you got a wrong perspective, well just my guess, someone can pitch in. I've watched videos, and read stuff. Basically what women say about this, is the following, to give good BJ you have to do a lot of practice. Now put that in terms of young 22 year old girl who lost her virginity at 18, been good girl and stuff, and only had an honest partner count of 2 per year, all with small d1cks. Or, we can assume, perhaps wrongfully, that HB10 doesn't give head left and right, and is not a slvt, she didn't have a lot of practice, much less with big d1cks.

I wonder how old is that girl.

But whatever, maybe she has head problems and needs a head doctor. As for the OP, if you can't manage to figure out how to fvck her right, we can help you out man, gives us the area and her phone number, someone will respond to this challenge.

I understand what you’re saying. Sex and all it’s facets is instinctual.
The quality of her oral is contained in her love of pleasing. You should be able to feel her passion through it. Obviously the 14 year old girl is going to research and even practice. She doesn’t need a dik to practice. She understands. The best BJ will always come from a woman who loves it.
There are ways to get her to fall in love with your dik as well.

A man may have some preferences and yes that would need to be communicated. But he wouldn’t need words. There are other ways.

 

[backseatjuan]

But my man, the talk is not about just a blow job. Original poster said she had hard time taking him into her *****. To me this tells volumes.

 

[Ranger]

But my man, the talk is not about just a blow job. Original poster said she had hard time taking him into her *****. To me this tells volumes.

I understand. Yeah just pounding on a woman’s cervix can be pretty stupid.
Some women aren’t built for it. I’ll tell ya backseat, I’m pretty suspect of this guy. You could be right though.

 

[backseatjuan]

I'm not suspect of this guy, I think he is genuine. Wtf are we be coming for to this site, this site is the medicine for our soul, literally, there is no one else out there who understands us more.

 

[Ranger]

I'm not suspect of this guy, I think he is genuine. Wtf are we be coming for to this site, this site is the medicine for our soul, literally, there is no one else out there who understands us more.

I understand. From my viewpoint? He was going to condem her for bad sexual performance when in fact, he never really opened her to let all that girl out.

 

[HughJasolphd]

Some girls are just too in their own head when it comes to sex. I've had a few times where a girl talked a big game but then would lay there like a dead body. When I asked where all the freak **** went she would say she was afraid to look like a slut. If a girl is comfortable with you enough, she'll fly that freak flag nice & high. The girls I've had the best sex with were always ones I'd be very upfront with about what I liked & frequently discussed sex with. For the girls that felt I was too big downstairs, I'd make extra effort with foreplay for an extended period. I've always been a giver when it comes to sex & want the girl to have the best experience possible, so it's no big deal for me to do some extra work on her before I get mine.
One way I got a past FWB to try **** she hasn't with other guys was to make plans to meet up but once I got there I solely focused on her pleasure and nothing else. I must have ate this girl out & played with her for over an hour before I even got to ****ing her..she was left quivering on the bed when I was finished & I just smiled and said talk to ya soon & went on my way. I let like a week pass before seeing her again but she kept asking where that intensity came from. I just said for her to repay the favor next I see her. Next time I saw her she was a totally different person in the sack; gave up the ass, bought handcuffs, oils, etc..she went above and beyond for me. All it took was some focus on her wants & getting her comfortable before she fully opened up for me

 

[Dr.Suave]

Use the 10 to lure in a different 10 that´s better in bed

 

[Roober]

Does a general blame the soldier's for losing the war? Does a Manager (a good one) blame employees for a projects failure?

It sounds to me like your sexual prowess is not what you think it is, you can work on that or continue to fvck women who "think" they know a definition of good sex.

 

[wifehunter]

You dawg, you must have twins 5+5=10. Because, no one girl, can be a 10.

 

[Mjsl30]

Lmao...I'll pretend this isn't a trolliolioliolioliolio post.

1) Learn how to get women turned on more prior to sex. If you do this well enough no woman is gonna just lay there.

2) Fvck her better. Maybe she isnt impressed with your skill set. Or lack thereof. Having a big d!ck and knowing what to do with it and how to use it are two different things.

3) Stop letting her just lay there. You are in control in the bedroom as the man. Domimate her and force her to get into the positions you want. She can't ride well? Then pull her down, hold her close to you and just start hammering away like a piston while you talk sh!t in her ear about how if she can't ride it good enough she is going to have to be punished.

Definitely not a troll but I guess it wouldn't hurt to try some more position first. Shes young so idk if it just because she in experienced or just bad at it.

 

[Mjsl30]

On the girl that gets salty: so what? Skip a week here and there. Don't see her every week. She's only salty because she's into you, use your unavailability to your advantage. See her two weeks, then not the third. Mix it up. It'll draw her in more.

On the 10: take marmel's advice. You could also take AMS's advice but on how to treat girls you aren't attracted to and apply it here. be hanging out and start to leave and shell ask where you're going. You: I don't think you're freaky enough for me. Then maybe shell try to prove it to you. Every girl can be a freak, you just need to get it out of her. But the end of the day, if you don't enjoy it, why keep her around. You shouldn't do things you don't like to do.

Also, don't assume if she's a 10 she has lots of experience with d1ck and at that big d1ck. Why you have to assume she is using sex to play your ass, she could be genuine.

I don't think she's trying to play me because when I tried to break it off she start crying. And that seemed pretty genuine. And she's pretty young so I dont know if its because of lack of experience or if she's just bad at it. I guess I might just have to train her. If she didn't look so good I would of dropped her already. But I guess I can have some more patients because if I have a 10 that's good at sex that could be valuable.

 

[Mjsl30]

You dawg, you must have twins 5+5=10. Because, no one girl, can be a 10.

It's all subject. To you she might be an 8. And I'm talking solely on looks.

 

[Mjsl30]

She’s not letting her slvt out during sex. She’s self conscious and a little insecure about sex.
You make it sound like you’re hard mastubating in her.
You have to get her to let her slvt out. There’s a naughty slvt in every woman. Um, that would be you for the most part.

Maybe but I'm just used to girls being nasty for me already. I never really had to work for it. I guess this is just one of those cases I might have to

 

[wifehunter]

It's all subject. To you she might be an 8. And I'm talking solely on looks.

My real name is Joe King.

 

[Mjsl30]

See what gets her going. If you can get her going sexually there’s very little she won’t do, but if you don’t want to do that for whatever reason, and it’s all about your pleasure, then I’m sure another guy will be more than willing to put in the effort to awaken the sex kitten of a hot 10.

Start by not saying insensitive things that lead to her crying, that’s the opposite of turning a girl on. Imagine a girl telling you that she’s dumping you because you suck in bed? How would that make you feel?
If she doesn’t feel sexy she won’t feel horny and telling her that she sucks in bed is the opposite of feeling sexy. There’s a way to get her to be better in bed without saying douchbag stuff. Like, that’s just Female 101.

I was dead serious when I told her I wanted to break it off. I didn't try to use it as some way to make her want to be more nasty. I'm not going to lie she's my first 10 but I can get plenty of great sex from other girls who's better at it. And I did ask her what she's into and she's really submissive and has rape fantasies. I'm all for it but I think she's really embarrassed about it. So how do you think I can make her feel more comfortable?

 

[Mjsl30]

I agree that there is a slvt hidden in EVERY woman. The trick is to get it out. It may take her getting more comfortable with you but you must be the one that takes the lock off the cage and put her into the right frame of mind.

I am not getting the impression that OP is looking for a serious relationship since he is spinning a few plates. My advice is to keep fvcking all of them and start getting this chick that isnt that good in bed more practice.

Use you mouth- by telling her what you like. She isnt a mind reader. Ask her what really gets her going.......hopefully she tells you.

I would fvck them all. Best to look at a 10 just laying there than a 6 who is fvcking you like its her last spin on the **** carousel.

You can teach the 10 to fvck better. You cant teach the 6 to become a 10.

Makes sense when you put it that way best advice I've gotten so far

 

[Mjsl30]

Also keep this in mind-

The main benefit of the 10 should be arm candy to take out with you. It raises your SMV.

Fvck those 7s and keep it hush hush. No reason to take them out where people will see you. They will lower your SMV.

All women 7s and up should have a purpose if you are spinning them.

7s- Fvck them.
8s- fvck them
9s/10s- fvck them and be seen with them. Let them bring lunch to you at work, take them out for drinks and around places where there are a lot of attractive women hanging out.

I kind feel stupid I haven't thought about using her in that way yet. These definitely some girls at my gym I want to **** that keep staring at me if I would out with the 10 i could bag then easier. Thanks for the advice.

 

[GrowingPains]

I was dead serious when I told her I wanted to break it off. I didn't try to use it as some way to make her want to be more nasty. I'm not going to lie she's my first 10 but I can get plenty of great sex from other girls who's better at it. And I did ask her what she's into and she's really submissive and has rape fantasies. I'm all for it but I think she's really embarrassed about it. So how do you think I can make her feel more comfortable?

Gotta act like it's not taboo. Act like it's normal and you're cool with it. How do you make anyone comfortable? Accept them for who they are. Maybe talk to her about it, ask her these questions casually. Ask her to describe what her fantasy being played out looks like.

 

[Mjsl30]

Try telling her how you want it sucked when she's doing it. Give her direction

Also, some women purposefully give you lazy head when you first start hooking up, don't ask me why, but they do. It's right up there with the "I don't really like giving head" lie they tell when u first start talking sexually.


And how are you communicating with her? I know your seeing other women, but do you talk to her like you're not? They tend to hold back more when they think you're only focused on them, and headed towards a serious relationship vs a fling

That's a good point. See we've never made anything official and I don't tell her about the other girls I talk to. So maybe she assumed that we were exclusive. Or that I was trying to be exclusive because of that and maybe the fact most guys tried to get in a relationship with her in the past because she looks really good. But after I tried to end it with her the other day she's been a lot more freaky. It's like a switch went off.

 

[17 shots]

That's a good point. See we've never made anything official and I don't tell her about the other girls I talk to. So maybe she assumed that we were exclusive. Or that I was trying to be exclusive because of that and maybe the fact most guys tried to get in a relationship with her in the past because she looks really good. But after I tried to end it with her the other day she's been a lot more freaky. It's like a switch went off.

I had a similar experience with an ex of mine when I was really young, that's why I brought it up... when she thought I was only focused on her, she would give me the wackest head for like 5 mins... then fast forward 2 years after we break up, she comes back around I'm ignoring all her texts and calls. Long story short, we link up and she sucks me off for 30 mins like a pornstar outside her house

She always knew how to do what I wanted, but she never felt that she needed to do it to keep me around

You have to keep showing you're willing to walk away, in order for them to keep upping the ante