I got a girl thats a 10 but she's terrible in bed what should I do

[Mjsl30]

Ok so the title pretty much says it all but let me give you some details first. So I'm seeing around 3 girls constantly. So I'm not exclusive with this chick. She's actually a the newest girl in my rotation. And the best looking. I'd say she's easily at 9.5 if not 10. And she's actually very humble and has a great personality. When we first started talking I thought she was perfect until we started having sex. Then I realized she's definitely not. She's terrible at sucking ****. She can't ride me. I'm pretty big down there and she can't take it when I start pounding. And I was patient hoping it would get better. Mind you the 2 other girls I'm talking to are an 8 and a 7 respectively. And they're both amazing at sex. And I always *** hard. And I haven't with the 10 I'm seeing. I'm a pretty busy person so I'm only able to really see 2 girls a week and 1 of them gets pretty salty when I don't see them that week so I was thinking about dropping the 10 since she really doesn't please me that much. I told my friends and they where shocked and begged me not to (but to be clear my friends are pretty beta and would just be happy to have any girl) and they keep telling me that they would love have a girl like her but I just think they want the social validation that goes with being with a 10. I tried to be up front and break it off with her last night so she wouldn't wonder why I stopped talking to her. And she bursted out cry talking about she can get better. And I dont do well when girls start crying so I didn't officially break things off yet and told her I'll think about it.

Can anyone tell me what I should do?

Or what would you do in my situation ?

Do you think I should give her another chance?

And have any of you been with a girl that improved in bed ?

 

[Poonani Maker]

Are you fvcking the 10 raw? If not, try it.

 

[marmel75]

Lmao...I'll pretend this isn't a trolliolioliolioliolio post.

1) Learn how to get women turned on more prior to sex. If you do this well enough no woman is gonna just lay there.

2) Fvck her better. Maybe she isnt impressed with your skill set. Or lack thereof. Having a big d!ck and knowing what to do with it and how to use it are two different things.

3) Stop letting her just lay there. You are in control in the bedroom as the man. Domimate her and force her to get into the positions you want. She can't ride well? Then pull her down, hold her close to you and just start hammering away like a piston while you talk sh!t in her ear about how if she can't ride it good enough she is going to have to be punished.

 

[Mazer]

I would just keep her around, put her last in the rotation. Its probably not going to work based on my experiences.

 

[GrowingPains]

On the girl that gets salty: so what? Skip a week here and there. Don't see her every week. She's only salty because she's into you, use your unavailability to your advantage. See her two weeks, then not the third. Mix it up. It'll draw her in more.

On the 10: take marmel's advice. You could also take AMS's advice but on how to treat girls you aren't attracted to and apply it here. be hanging out and start to leave and shell ask where you're going. You: I don't think you're freaky enough for me. Then maybe shell try to prove it to you. Every girl can be a freak, you just need to get it out of her. But the end of the day, if you don't enjoy it, why keep her around. You shouldn't do things you don't like to do.

 

[backseatjuan]

AMS's advice is that girl isn't into you enough. Though I have my doubts that you are a beta provider with her and her sex with you is by contract, she gives you a fellatio and not blow job, she fvcks just so you keep spending on her. That is not the case. You did say you are pretty big down there, wtf that means. Big is 18 cm and up, that's 7 inches and up, and pretty thick. Now pretty big is 21 cm and up, and pretty thick.

How the hell do you expect a woman to svck your c0ck if it's that long and thick? I mean sure she can give a head for 5 minutes maybe tops 10 minutes, before her jaw begins to feel sore from it, and definitely she can't do deep blow jobs on you. Now about her *****, that's a different story. With riding and from behind that is going to be deep. Also keep in mind, not all women can cvm from fvcking, majority can't.

Drop her, nah. Stopping your contact with her, ignoring her more, etc, definitely nah.

I'd take her word for it, which leaves us with just one option, practice, practice, practice. I want you to fvck her more often, twice a week sounds good, three times a week perhaps. Actually you have a perfect opportunity here to try something different. A toy. Then perhaps anal with a toy. I do believe she can be freaky, and if she is down with meeting you more, she has the potential for it.

Definitely do not drop her, she is way too valuable as a social prove around you, and as a means of sexual exploration.

My bet is she could do you the way you want it if she feels more comfortable in bed.

With all above advice, you gotta promise yourself to give her another 10 tries until you reconsider, and I don't mean some lame ass 30 or 40 minute session each time.

As far as blow jobs go, let her begin, and then put your hands on her head, if she grabs your hands, tell her no hands, don't push it down her too much though, it's just an excersize for her, she is not gonna get it perfect the first time. Same for bed, forget about riding for now, missionary bang the sh1t out of her, then take a smoke and do the same thing doggy style. Then try the same thing near window with her bend over. Then that same day you can sit on a chair and her on top, slowly, no need to go fast, she is practicing.

 

[backseatjuan]

Also, don't assume if she's a 10 she has lots of experience with d1ck and at that big d1ck. Why you have to assume she is using sex to play your ass, she could be genuine.

 

[Ranger]

She’s not letting her slvt out during sex. She’s self conscious and a little insecure about sex.
You make it sound like you’re hard mastubating in her.
You have to get her to let her slvt out. There’s a naughty slvt in every woman. Um, that would be you for the most part.

 

[AJ84]

See what gets her going. If you can get her going sexually there’s very little she won’t do, but if you don’t want to do that for whatever reason, and it’s all about your pleasure, then I’m sure another guy will be more than willing to put in the effort to awaken the sex kitten of a hot 10.

Start by not saying insensitive things that lead to her crying, that’s the opposite of turning a girl on. Imagine a girl telling you that she’s dumping you because you suck in bed? How would that make you feel?
If she doesn’t feel sexy she won’t feel horny and telling her that she sucks in bed is the opposite of feeling sexy. There’s a way to get her to be better in bed without saying douchbag stuff. Like, that’s just Female 101.

 

[sosousage]

Dominate her and force her
pull her down
just start hammering
talk sh!t in her ear about
she is going to have to be punished.

Big NO for sexual predators

 

[Ranger]

See what gets her going. If you can get her going sexually there’s very little she won’t do, but if you don’t want to do that for whatever reason, and it’s all about your pleasure, then I’m sure another guy will be more than willing to put in the effort to awaken the sex kitten of a hot 10.

Start by not saying insensitive things that lead to her crying, that’s the opposite of turning a girl on. Imagine a girl telling you that she’s dumping you because you suck in bed? How would that make you feel?
If she doesn’t feel sexy she won’t feel horny and telling her that she sucks in bed is the opposite of feeling sexy. There’s a way to get her to be better in bed without saying douchbag stuff. Like, that’s just Female 101.

Yeah he shut her down big time. That’s fukked up $hit right there. He’s watched too much porn.

 

[Glassguy]

I agree that there is a slvt hidden in EVERY woman. The trick is to get it out. It may take her getting more comfortable with you but you must be the one that takes the lock off the cage and put her into the right frame of mind.

I am not getting the impression that OP is looking for a serious relationship since he is spinning a few plates. My advice is to keep fvcking all of them and start getting this chick that isnt that good in bed more practice.

Use you mouth- by telling her what you like. She isnt a mind reader. Ask her what really gets her going.......hopefully she tells you.

I would fvck them all. Best to look at a 10 just laying there than a 6 who is fvcking you like its her last spin on the **** carousel.

You can teach the 10 to fvck better. You cant teach the 6 to become a 10.

 

[Glassguy]

Also keep this in mind-

The main benefit of the 10 should be arm candy to take out with you. It raises your SMV.

Fvck those 7s and keep it hush hush. No reason to take them out where people will see you. They will lower your SMV.

All women 7s and up should have a purpose if you are spinning them.

7s- Fvck them.
8s- fvck them
9s/10s- fvck them and be seen with them. Let them bring lunch to you at work, take them out for drinks and around places where there are a lot of attractive women hanging out.

 

[backseatjuan]

Nah, he didn't watch to much porn, he wants a woman that pleases him sexually. Thing is not every woman is going to be experienced with big d1ck.

I once fvcked this armenian girl who basically approached me for sex. Freak was a wife with two kids, now she has three kids, and her husband wasn't giving it to her or whatever, she told me that story. She seen me come to her place of business with a really young chick I fvcked, so she knew I'm fvcking, and not clinging. Anyway, after lots of fvcking, and some major time not fvcking we are still buddies on whatsapp and viber, from time to time she writes me, and I write her too, just friends, with benefits if there is an opportunity. I once had a conversation with her about her and me doing a fvcking session with a buddy of mine, I fvck her ass, and he fvcks her mouth, and we stick a dildo in her *****. She told me this basically, she loves sex what it is, she doesn't like being abused. So there goes the thing about hard sex. Funny thing is my d1ck is short, so it's not size for this girl, and she came several times during an average 15 minute fvck session.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Nah, he didn't watch to much porn, he wants a woman that pleases him sexually. Thing is not every woman is going to be experienced with big d1ck.

I once fvcked this armenian girl who basically approached me for sex. Freak was a wife with two kids, now she has three kids, and her husband wasn't giving it to her or whatever, she told me that story. She seen me come to her place of business with a really young chick I fvcked, so she knew I'm fvcking, and not clinging. Anyway, after lots of fvcking, and some major time not fvcking we are still buddies on whatsapp and viber, from time to time she writes me, and I write her too, just friends, with benefits if there is an opportunity. I once had a conversation with her about her and me doing a fvcking session with a buddy of mine, I fvck her ass, and he fvcks her mouth, and we stick a dildo in her *****. She told me this basically, she loves sex what it is, she doesn't like being abused. So there goes the thing about hard sex. Funny thing is my d1ck is short, so it's not size for this girl, and she came several times during an average 15 minute fvck session.

Sex is mental and chemical.

 

[17 shots]

Try telling her how you want it sucked when she's doing it. Give her direction

Also, some women purposefully give you lazy head when you first start hooking up, don't ask me why, but they do. It's right up there with the "I don't really like giving head" lie they tell when u first start talking sexually.


And how are you communicating with her? I know your seeing other women, but do you talk to her like you're not? They tend to hold back more when they think you're only focused on them, and headed towards a serious relationship vs a fling

 

[Ranger]

Nah, he didn't watch to much porn, he wants a woman that pleases him sexually. Thing is not every woman is going to be experienced with big d1ck.

I once fvcked this armenian girl who basically approached me for sex. Freak was a wife with two kids, now she has three kids, and her husband wasn't giving it to her or whatever, she told me that story. She seen me come to her place of business with a really young chick I fvcked, so she knew I'm fvcking, and not clinging. Anyway, after lots of fvcking, and some major time not fvcking we are still buddies on whatsapp and viber, from time to time she writes me, and I write her too, just friends, with benefits if there is an opportunity. I once had a conversation with her about her and me doing a fvcking session with a buddy of mine, I fvck her ass, and he fvcks her mouth, and we stick a dildo in her *****. She told me this basically, she loves sex what it is, she doesn't like being abused. So there goes the thing about hard sex. Funny thing is my d1ck is short, so it's not size for this girl, and she came several times during an average 15 minute fvck session.

Well I get you. The way he talks about it is as though she’s an object. (Thus the porn comment)
I’m pretty good size but I also know that it’s about a whole lot more. I would never rely on my dik as the be all end all. I know better.

Though experience I know that opening a woman is a finesse skill. Seeing where she’s at and where it needs to go for optimum pleasure. Understanding femininity goes a long way.
A woman can be turned on physically but not turned on psychologically in the least.

I don’t really have the words. I do know that if you open her up, she will let you do nearly anything you want and then some. It’s an experience thing maybe or it’s really a product of how a man thinks.

When I was younger there were limits but from about mid 30’s on there weren’t any limits. I thought differently. Thus I could bring out another side to a woman.

 

[Ranger]

Try telling her how you want it sucked when she's doing it. Give her direction

Also, some women purposefully give you lazy head when you first start hooking up, don't ask me why, but they do. It's right up there with the "I don't really like giving head" lie they tell when u first start talking sexually.


And how are you communicating with her? I know your seeing other women, but do you talk to her like you're not? They tend to hold back more when they think you're only focused on them, and headed towards a serious relationship vs a fling

See, I think that she knows what a good BJ is already. Instinctively.
She’s “thinking” instead of feeling. She’s in her head. She’s “out of state”, meaning she isn’t in a state of being her naughty girl. The super sexual feminine woman self who wants to be your object of desire and lust.

It’s like saying you ran into a woman who doesn’t know how to kiss. Yeah right.

 

[marmel75]

Big NO for sexual predators

Big YES for anyone who knows what women like in bed, which apparently does not inclide you.

 

[backseatjuan]

See, I think that she knows what a good BJ is already. Instinctively.

I think you got a wrong perspective, well just my guess, someone can pitch in. I've watched videos, and read stuff. Basically what women say about this, is the following, to give good BJ you have to do a lot of practice. Now put that in terms of young 22 year old girl who lost her virginity at 18, been good girl and stuff, and only had an honest partner count of 2 per year, all with small d1cks. Or, we can assume, perhaps wrongfully, that HB10 doesn't give head left and right, and is not a slvt, she didn't have a lot of practice, much less with big d1cks.

I wonder how old is that girl.

But whatever, maybe she has head problems and needs a head doctor. As for the OP, if you can't manage to figure out how to fvck her right, we can help you out man, gives us the area and her phone number, someone will respond to this challenge.