“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got a girl convinced I'm not an AFC anymore

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ok.. before I came to this site I was a bit of an AFC and I had a hard time with girls.

At that time there was a HB8 that I had a oneits for. The reason I could never get her was because she didn't view me as a man. She thought of me as a friend and used me as an emotional tampon. I tried everything to get this girl and showed that I really cared about her and that I wanted to love her. I did everything that women say they want and had no success.

Well, now over 3 years have passed since I have up on her and put her on my next list.

Since that time, she has called me every few months and has noticed a change in my conversations and my behavior. I haven't realized it myself but she has. She now says that I'm older and more attractive and wants to 'spend time' with me. The good thing is I now know that she is only a w=hore and won't be of any value to me.

Now that I've reflected on this I've come to the conclusion that there are some things you can do to remove yourself from the friendszone.

Here are some of the things I said that in our conversations. I never even realized what I was doing and it was never my intention to convince her of anything. I just viewed her as a dirty little w-hore and that was that.

1. I told her that every time she mentions a guy I just assume that she is f--king him.
2. I always joked about her being a little w-hore and got her to admit to her nympho problems.
3. I once told her about how I just want to take the asian girl at work and fu-ck her on my desk.
4. I never called her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good for you man!

Eventually, coming to this site changes your way of thinking and after a while, you won't even have to think about it, you just act different because you think different because you are different.

Even though some might go through a little bit of a 'jerk'phase, most actually turn out to be better men.
 
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Originally posted by Caveman
Good for you man!

Eventually, coming to this site changes your way of thinking and after a while, you won't even have to think about it, you just act different because you think different because you are different.

Even though some might go through a little bit of a 'jerk'phase, most actually turn out to be better men.
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It's good to go through that jerk phase though it makes you stronger and the attention seekers find it hard to handle and can't walk over you anymore.
 
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I agree, in order to balance both sides of the scale you have to experience each.

A DJ is in the middle and it really is a balancing act
 
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If you want my personal input, I think this girl is a wh0re and is meerly responding to the fact you are talking dirty; not because you are more of a man.

If she was a non-wh0re she would give you shy-horny vibes and change the subject away from the sexual aura, but I think girl mostly just likes the sexual attention period and whatever goes down isn't going to matter much or be worth anything.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by rgeere
If you want my personal input, I think this girl is a wh0re and is meerly responding to the fact you are talking dirty; not because you are more of a man.

If she was a non-wh0re she would give you shy-horny vibes and change the subject away from the sexual aura, but I think girl mostly just likes the sexual attention period and whatever goes down isn't going to matter much or be worth anything.
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yes she is a who-re.
 
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yes those "it's almost impossible to get out of a friendzone" is bull****. i made it very easily with tens of girls i knew in my afc days. its really easy, just dont try too hard ;)
 
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